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Tips & TricksFor KeyHoldersAn Addendum to 'A KeyHolder's Handbook'Great Tips &- Dirty TricksFor WomenIn Charge!
Tips & TricksFor KeyholdersAn Addendum to A KeyHolder's HandbookbyGeorgia Ivey Green
Copyright 2014 Georgia Ivey GreenPublished by Georgia Ivey GreenAll rights reservedISBN: 1499660480ISBN-13: 978-1499660487
DedicationTo all my fans for supporting my work.
Table of ContentsIntroduction1.WIlat's It All About?2.Fantasy is Key!i1123· Scare Tactics244. Reach Out And Touch Someone325. WIlat Is There To Talk About?426. Teaching Him Obedience527. WIlen He Asks Too Often658. WIlen You're Too Tired759. Absence Makes The Penis Grow8310.Play "Unfair" Games11.Just for fun12. WrapUpAbout The Author92102115122
IntroductionAfter I wrote "A KeyHolder's Handbook," itquickly became obvious that there was a great dealI didn't tell you. So I decided to write this book assort of an addendum. I wanted to get more specificabout his fantasies, how to learn what they are,and how to use them to your benefit. I also wantedto point out, with a little more emphasis, the partthat humiliation plays in all this.While chastity is not a necessary thing, even tobe a "Keyholder," there are many things thatpertain only to chastity, while other things lendthemselves to non-chastity situations. In this bookI will try to give examples that pertain to bothchastity and non-chastity. Tease and denial, forexample, might seem like a chastity thing, but itdoesn't have to be. Youcan tease your guy in manyways and still, even though he is not in chastity,deny him his orgasm.The question is, how will any of this benefit
you, as the woman in charge? How can anythingthat involves more work for you, be better for yourrelationship as a whole? I'll even attempt toanswer the question of why you should give himmore sexual attention and of what benefit it is toyou. You may have his key in hand, and you mayhave read my other books on the subject, but doyou know what to do when you are just notinterested in doing anything sexual and he isbegging you for attention?In this book I hope to arm you with theweapons you need to improve your relationshipand make it easier for you to embrace the change.Being in charge is not always easy. I have givenyou specific things you can do in specificsituations. You will learn how to discipline him,how to punish him, and how to keep him occupiedand out of your hair when you just want somepeace and quiet.In this book I will tell you everything you needto know to get into his head, to train him to obeyyou, what to say, what to do when he bugs you toomuch. How to keep him busy, what to do when youare separated by miles, and teach you how todesign and play games with him. Youwanted morespecifics? You got it. More details? You get that,too.Basically, this book will tell you how to makebeing in charge, not only easy, but much more fun,as well!Georgia Ivey Green
ChapterlWhat ItAUAbout?What is a "Keyholder" and why would anyonewant to be one?The answer to that question is simple: If you wanta happier, healthier, more attentive husband, thenyou should simply lock him in a chastity device.Right? WRONG! It isn't reallythat simple.If your husband (or partner) has requested thatyou "lock him up," then you are one step ahead ofthe game. If not, it will be on your shoulders tofigure out how to get him to accept having his"Willy" locked away.The average "unlocked" male is always sexuallysatisfied. I know that is a pretty bold statement
Georgia Ivey Greenconsidering how often he begs you for sex, but payattention, there is more to it. When an unlockedmale can masturbate, have wet dreams, findanother woman to satisfy him on the side, orsimply has no need for sex (at the moment), he isconsidered to be sexually satisfied. However,masturbation is NOTintercourse.Basically, when a man has had intercourse, hisbody chemistry is altered. His basic instinct forprocreation has been satisfied, and he has lessenergy. After all, he just had sex, did he not? Ittakes, on average, about a week for him to fullyrecover and for his sex drive to build back up. NowI know that you can find guys who masturbateevery day, or several times a day, but the factremains that all men have different sexual drives.Masturbation, for most men (not in chastity), doesnot fully satisfy his need to procreate. Therefore,he will recover faster and feel the need for sexagain, sooner than if he had had intercourse.So, the average recovery time after intercourse isabout one week. That means, for about a week hewill not be very attentive or even obedient. He mayeven seem a little "grumpy." After that, he will gothrough a period (again the length varies) duringwhich he will want intercourse again. That means,he will be more attentive, have a more agreeabledisposition, and even be more willing to help out2
Tips & Tricks For Keyholdersaround the house. At least for a time.He will eventually begin to show signs ofdiscontent if he does not get the attention (orrelease) he wants in a reasonable time. That is, hewill eventually become an "ogre" if you do not dosomething to prevent it. Of course, the averagetime it takes him to reach the "ogre stage" varieswith the individual and his sexual drive. But thefact remains, he will begin to show signs ofdiscontent.Therefore, if a man has intercourse once a week ormore, he will not be easy to control. He will haveno reason to pursue you as he did when you werecourting. Back then, he probably wasn't getting sexvery often, or he was in his prime which means hisdrive to procreate was at its peak.Normally, a man will not want, or need, to haveintercourse very often. Actually, the theory is thatif he has intercourse once a week he will not everreach the point of becoming an ogre. But at thesame time, he will have no incentive to make youhappy. He will not treat you the way you deserve toto be treated, as a woman, as a wife, or as a lover.So why lock him up? Do you want your man to bemore attentive to your sexual desires? Do you wanthim to help you more around the house? Do youwant him to lose a little weight and maybe even get3
GeorgiaIveyGreeninto better physical shape? Do you want him tobring you flowers? How about cooking a mealevery now and then? If you want these things youmust start by locking his little "Willy" in a chastitydevice and giving him a lot more sexual attentionand far fewer orgasms!Tip: Lock him in chastity but never, EVER let himknow when he will be released.Okay, so you are officially a Keyholder now. Doyou think your job is over? Trust me, you are justbeginning. Yes, a "horny" man will be moreattentive, more helpful, and will do more to pleaseyou, but only for a limited time. But a VERY hornyman will do so much more for you as long as heremains aroused! So, obviously, the more arousedhe is, and the longer it has been since his lastorgasm, the better husband he will be. The key ishis state of arousal!Just like a man in prison, his behavior is regulatedby his desire for release. If he knows he can gettime off his sentence for good behavior, he has anincentive to follow the rules. If he is told that therewill be no early release, he has no incentive. Thatis why the parole system was created. It givesprisoners the incentive to be more cooperative.The single most important thing is keeping your4
Tips & Tricks For Keyholderschaste male sexually aroused and wanting. If youtell him that you intend to keep him locked up fora week, a month, or even longer, you may haveruined your chances to keep him happy. He shouldalways have the hope that today might be the dayhe gets the relief he wants.If you tell him that you are going to grant him arelease (an orgasm) in one week, he will may verywell lose his desire to be the helpful, loving,attentive man you want him to be. You have takenaway his hope for relief. By telling him that youintend to give him relief on a certain day, he nowonly has to wait. But, on the other hand, if you donot tell him when you intend to grant him release,then he must behave, obey, and give you theattention that you desire in order to earn hisrelease as soon as possible. In other words, hebecomes a model prisoner.The key to his chastity device is NOT a magicwand. You can not simply wave it in front of himand expect him to do everything you want. It doesnot work that way (though many others will tellyou differently). You have to work at it. But onceyou know the secrets, his secrets, you will find itquite easy to control his every waking moment.Then you can mold him into the man you havealways dreamed of. The man you thought he waswhen you married him.5
Georgia IveyGreenTip: Be his school-yard bully.So what is chastity all about? The very act oflocking him into a chastity device is humiliating,more for some than for others. If he tries to tellyou that I am wrong about this, ask him if hewould be embarrassed if you told his brother, hissister, or even his mother, that he now wears achastity device. Then see what he says. For mostmen, wearing a chastity device is both humiliatingand erotic. That may seem contradictory, but it isnot. I am sure you can think of a few things thatwould be both embarrassing and erotic to you, aswell.The point I am trying to make here is thathumiliation can be very erotic depending on theparticular situation. Youshould recognize that anduse it to your advantage. There are two basic kindsof humiliation at your disposal: Verbal andPhysical.Verbal humiliation is simply saying things that willarouse him and/or even embarrass him. Forexample, if you talk about his penis being small oruseless when it comes to satisfying a womansexually, that would be "verbal" humiliation. If youmake him wear a pair of pink panties to workunder his regular clothing, that would be6
Tips & Tricks For Keyholders"physical" humiliation. I will give many examplesof both later on.You may be uncomfortable humiliating yourpartner, at first. But with a little practice you willcome to enjoy it. It is almost like being a schoolyard bully except that your partner will becomearoused by the things you say or make him do.This is another reason why you need to have agood line of communication. You do not want tohurt him emotionally. Using the example above,some men, especiallythose with small penises, canbe very sensitive about it. On the other hand, Ihave had men write me and ask how they can gettheir wivesto humiliate them this way.It all depends on what your partner enjoys in theway of humiliation. Some men say they do not likeit all, but then when faced with having tomasturbate in front of their wives, who kibitz themby telling them to hurry up, or laugh at them asthey attempt to ejaculate, they get more arousedby the minute. So, deny it as they may, men enjoybeing humiliated to one extent or another.Of course, there are many more things you can dobesides talking about the size of his penis ormaking him wear your panties to work. The bestway to discover what he likes is through hisfantasies. I will discuss them in detail in the nextchapter. For now, simply use your imagination. It7
Georgia IveyGreenis your best tool when it comes to keeping himaroused.Tip: Use your imagination to spur his.What you both need to know in order to make yourrelationship the best it can be is your partner'sneeds, desires, and expectations. The best way tofind out these things is by opening up the lines ofcommunication between you both. That meansusing every kind of communication that makes iteasier for you to open up and tell your partnerwhat you really want or need.It is often very difficult, even for married couples,to openly talk about things of a sexual nature. Thatis, to tell your partner what kinds of things youwould enjoy doing, or at least, trying. Believe me,there are things that your partner "can not" tellyou because it would ruin the experience. It is liketaking your husband to the mall and pointing outsomething that you want for Valentine's Day. Ifyou have to tell him what to get, you might as wellbuy if for yourself, because the excitement ofreceiving it as a present for Valentine's Day will begone.The same thing holds true if he tells youeverything he wants you to do to, or for, him. Soyou need another way for him to tell you without8
Tips & Tricks For Keyholderscoming right out and saying it. I alwaysrecommend some form of written communication.You can use hand-written letters, or emails, oreven something less obvious such as a fantasy orstory. I will cover that in more detail in the nextchapter as well.Tip: Create a contract or agreement and stick toit.It has been my experience that having a contract(or agreement) that governs your chastityrelationship is a necessary thing. It makes it easierfor you both to play your respective roles withminimal "out of role" interaction. After all, whowants to stop in the middle of a tease session toask if what you plan to do next is okay with him?No one, that is who!There is a sample agreement on my website,"Becoming A Mistress," that you can use as a guidewhen setting up your own contract. The mainthings you need to include are:Your responsibilities as the Keyholder (orDominant).His responsibilities as the chaste (or submissive).What disciplines you may use. What punishmentsyou may use.How you both will behave in public(such as how you will refer to each other). A list of9
Georgia Ivey Greenhis limits. Most importantly, where the emergencykey to his chastity device will be located.And a way to step out of your roles and when it isnecessary.You do not have to make a fancy, formalagreement. As long as you write it all down so thatyou both understand what is expected, you shouldbe fine. But an agreement is only the beginning.You will need to use other forms ofcommunication to properly convey your owndesires and needs to your partner. It is especiallyimportant for him to have a means of letting youknow what he wants, desires, likes, and hates inthe way of
In this book I hope to arm you with the weapons you need to improve your relationship and make it easier for you to embrace the change. Being in charge is not always easy. I have given you specific things you can do in specific situations. You will learn how to discipline him, howto punish him, and howto keep him occupied and out of your hair when you just want some peaceand quiet. In this .
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