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The Red PillHandbookA collection of posts, articles, and links fromhttps://www.reddit.com/r/theredpill2nd EditionThe Red Pill Handbook 1
Table of ContentsIntroduction5- Introduction6- The Basics Explained10- Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke, Come and Feed16- What Is The Red Pill And Why Does It Exist?23- An Evolutionary Perspective on The Red Pill25A Comprehensive Guide to The Red Pill26- All-in-One Red Pill 10127- 1. Introduction28- 2. Keep It Stupid Simple (KISS)29- 3. Desires30- 4. The Red Pill31- 5. The Sexual Marketplace38- 6. Improving Sexual Market Value (SMV)41- The Five Stages of Red Pill55The Red Pill and Society57- What Is With All The Hate On TRP?58- Why Do You Think This Subreddit Is So Hated On Reddit?61- Excuse Me. Why Does Everyone Assume You Guys Are Abusive Assholes?66- Deconstructing: EMSK Why "The Red Pill" Will Kill You Inside71- Feminists are Losing The Debate Online83The Red Pill, Self-Improvement, and Masculinity87- How You Know You're Alpha88- Abundance Mentality (Alpha) vs. Scarcity Mentality (Beta)92- The Easiest Way To Raise Your Value As A Man94- So You Want To Be A Man? Welcome To Life On Hard Mode96- You Are Disposable. The World Does Not Care About You.99- Respect is Earned101- My Stance On Women109- Male Bonding, Arousal Addiction, and Isolation113- Feminism and the Death of the Male Mentor119- An Overview of Powertalk122- Do Not Let Negativity Consume You128- Being a Man is a Lonely Business (Endure)132- 5 Misconceptions of MGTOW136Guides to Success in Self-Improvement141- A 7 Step Guide To Swallowing The Pill142- Focus On You First. And Second. And Third. And.Blah Blah.Worry About WomenSeventh147- Goals: A Quick Guide On How To Attain Them151The Red Pill Handbook 2
- Let's Do Money155- Dealing With Loneliness As You Work Toward Becoming A Top 10% Man160The Red Pill, Dating, and Relationships165General Sexual Marketplace Theory166- Briffault's Law167- Men Are Not Happy168- The Unbalanced Sexual Marketplace171- The Red Pill is Pro-Woman175- Being Controlling is for Losers!179- Is Your Girlfriend Cheating On You With Her Guy-Friends?182- Society Likes To Ignore A Woman's Past Sexual Behavior When Judging Her Character.Don't Fall Into This Trap185- Love is Irrational189- The Redefinition of Marriage193Observations on Gender Behaviour197- The Red Pill Is Even Tougher To Swallow For Girls198- "Why Would That Matter? I'm The Girl"202- New Members, This Is Fundamental203- She Doesn't Love You205- Women Don't Give a Fuck About Your "Feelings"207- "I've Been Hurt in the Past"209- A Red Pill Take On "Why Is Men Feeling Entitled To Sex Is Being Discussed WhileWomen Feeling Entitled To Friendship is Not?"212- The Female Imperative218- Why Girls Get Over Guys Quicker220- Why Women Like Unemotional Men225- Why Women Love Assholes (An Alternate View)231- 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women Crave233- She's Going To Get Away With Whatever She Wants. Accept It. Stop Caring.235- Lying About Sexual Partners237- How To Know You Are Dating A Slut. Source: I Married One240- A Woman Cannot Tell You How You Must Proceed. She Can Only Tell You What SheWants To Experience244- Women are Incapable of Change247- I've Become Too Critical Of Girls252- I Don't Hate Women, I Just Don't Respect Them.255- Women Want A Wedding, Not A Marriage260- The Modern Woman's Sexual Strategy261- Another Take On Why TRP Is Loathed By Women: AF/BB Has To Be A Secret.265Dating and Relationships268- The Two Most Powerful Weapons In A Man's Relationship Arsenal: Stepping Out, AndWalking Away.269- The Most Unattractive Trait Of All: Trying To Attract A Woman270- Red Pill vs. Blue Pill Dating Behaviour273The Red Pill Handbook 3
- You Only Want Me for Sex!276- Refusing The Gift280- You're The Island, And She's The Seagull284- Don't Just Make Her Do What You Want. Make Her Want To286- Every Man Must Always Follow The Rule289- Be a Closed Book292- Never Date A Woman Who Won't Do Sexual Things With You That She Did With HerOther Partners295- Treat Women Like Children296- Be A Good Person If You Want But It Won't Attract Women301- Men Opting Out of The Sexual Marketplace304Guides to Success in Dating and Relationships310- Guide to Social Game311- A List of Relationship Green Flags316- "Take My Breath Away"318- The Definitive Guide To Shit Tests320- Be Selfish, Dismissive, Amused, And Communicate Less - The Keys ToSuccess 323- The Eight Rules of Fatherhood327Red Pill Stories and Experiences330- I Think I Broke Her.331- Shit Tests Cause Me to Lose Interest in Women332- Why I'm Afraid of Marriage334- Learn From Me: 40 Years Old, 3 Kids, Divorced337- I Was Divorce Raped. Don't Be Me343- Don't Be Like Bruce349Quotes and Highlighted Comments352- A Collection of TRP Gold from the Comments353- Another Collection of TRP Gold from the Comments389- Legendary Quotes from TRP403Resources405- Glossary406Further Reading414- Required Reading415- List of Websites416- Articles417- Books 420- Thank You423- Publication History424The Red Pill Handbook 4
IntroductionThe Red Pill Handbook 5
IntroductionBy pk athiest.Article link.Greetings, everybody. Welcome to The Red Pill. We've got almost a hundredsubscribers, in exactly two weeks! This is incredible.Why have we grown so quickly?Because there's truth in The Red Pill. Because men are realizing that the sexualmarketplace has shifted away from what we've been taught. Men who grew upover thirty years ago are discovering the world has changed. Men who are stillgrowing up- from the 80s, 90s, and even the last decade, they're starting to realizethat what their parents taught them, what television and chick flicks taught them,what church and Sunday school taught them. it's all wrong.Our culture has become a feminist culture. A president cannot be elected todaywithout succumbing to the feminist narrative and paying them tribute. How manytimes has Obama given credit for his manhood to his wife? How many times hasthe debate hinged on women's pay gap - which is a myth that gets lip servicebecause if you don't you're a misogynist!I'm not here to parade the concepts of Men's Rights- nor am I here to discussself-improvement tips that /r/seduction now purports are to make you a better man,not get laid more often.I am here to say, for better or for worse, the frame around public discourse is afeminist frame, and we've lost our identity because of it.The Red Pill Handbook 6
But this isn't the end of the world. The world is changing, but men are still partof it. We just need to make sure we're changing with it.It's too easy to blame feminism for our troubles.Men, our happiness is our responsibility. Culture has always shifted, it'sdynamic and fluid. It has never and will never stay still.Feminism was inevitable. Equal rights are something I strongly am in supportof. For men and women.Women have the right to pursue happiness. Nobody should tell them otherwise.Maximizing happiness is the goal of every living creature on this planet.Men, we need to recognize that since women are rightfully seeking outhappiness, evolutionary psychology is more relevant today than ever in the pastcentury (and possibly longer). We no longer run the show. And I, for one, don'tdisagree that marriage had to change if we were to see equal rights.But now it's time to get serious and realize that our strategy needs to change.Feminism is a sexual strategy. It puts women into the best position they can find, toselect mates, to determine when they want to switch mates, to locate the best DNApossible, and to garner the most resources they can individually achieve.The Red Pill is men's sexual strategy. Reality is happening, and we need tomake sure that we adjust our strategy accordingly.Welcome to The Red Pill. It's a difficult pill to swallow, understanding thateverything you were taught, everything you were lead to believe is a lie. But onceyou learn it, internalize it, and start living your new life, it gets better.As an introduction to the topic, I want to outline what our focus is here at /r/theredpill.The Red Pill Handbook 7
Mastering GameGame is an important portion of a sexual strategy. A lot of you probably camehere from /r/seduction and are probably wondering why we'd need a new subredditif one dedicated to game already exists. The reason is simple: Game is a facet ofThe Red Pill's sexual strategy. Determining good game is impossible to do sowithout first understanding the context given by The Red Pill's framework.Something I keep seeing over on the seduction subreddit is a problem taking overmost relationship and sex forums: the desire to feminize the discussion (basicallymaking it sound politically correct if read by a female).Yes, game got a bad reputation from girls who demonize manipulation. This isbecause game is an effective strategy against their own sexual strategy. I believewomen's opposition to game can be attributed to the unconscious factors inwomen's sexual strategy (Please do read Schedules of Mating).When women started becoming vocal about their opposition to game, that'swhen men decided it would be necessary to make game more politically correct."Oh, we're not here to manipulate women to have sex with us- we're here tobecome better men!"And thus, the female imperative took over game. When men think they mustdefine their own sexual strategy in a way that best delivers results to the femalesexual strategy, you know your own strategy will suffer! In a game of chess, do Ipolitely not take out the oppositions' queen in hopes not to offend or win the game?Defining the StrategyBecause of the necessity to have good game, we must define what good gameis. A large portion of Red Pill discussion revolves around evolutionary psychology.Understanding the facets of this psychology are key to developing a good sexualstrategy. Because this strategy is useful not only in gaining the attention of theThe Red Pill Handbook 8
opposite sex, but continuing relationships, having children, and maximizing yourown happiness throughout life, I'm going to argue that defining the strategy outsideof just "good game" is an important facet of Red Pill discussion.Acknowledging RealityFinally, I think our focus should always remain on ensuring that we challengethe reality we perceive and discuss precisely and objectively whether or not ourbeliefs line up with the testable results we can replicate. I am a firm believer thatpotential success can only be maximized by maximizing your knowledge of thefactors surrounding your success. Keeping your eyes closed and ignoring evidenceand facts will not benefit you. Opening your eyes and acknowledging everythingno matter how good, bad, or painful it may seem, is instrumental in makingdecisions that will lead to the happiest, most successful outcomes.The Red Pill Handbook 9
The Basics ExplainedBy SoftHarem.Article link.Well folks, as 2013 wraps up this has been a helluva ride. Our little experimentthat /u/pk atheist put together has grown to 28,000 members in a little over a yearwith no sign of slowing down, and easily one of the most active subs on all ofReddit for its size. Most of us had nowhere to go. We knew the popular socialnarrative regarding dating was horseshit, but every time we said anything about itwe were met with vitriol and shaming tactics trying to keep us in line like goodlittle drones. A few of us got ourselves banned from every major gender based suband decided enough was enough. Enter /r/TheRedPillWhile you're all nursing hangovers I wanted to take a minute to discuss ourphilosophy as a whole, and the direction we want to take for 2014. Just as Reddit isthe "front page of the internet" /r/TheRedPill has become a major "front page ofthe manosphere" We are now a major hub for all manosphere related activity.Every single prominent blogger is linked here, browses here, and has done anAMA. We have an extremely active community and it is only going to get bigger.As that happens the mod staff refuses to let our signal weaken. We will not haveour message softened by anyone.What is The Red Pill?A loose and highly debated collection of frameworks that describe sexualdynamics between men and women. In short, it is purely information. What eachperson decides to do with this information is up to them. Remember, sexualstrategy is amoral. You decide what you want to do and how you want to go aboutThe Red Pill Handbook 10
doing it. You are responsible for your overall happiness, and all consequences ofyour actions. We're here to provide and discuss the framework.What is a sexual strategy?Simply put, it is being honest with yourself about what you want from theopposite sex and putting together a realistic plan to go after it. For our purposesthis is broken down into three main groups: MGTOW, Plate spinning, andGirlfriend game.MGTOWTaken from: http://www.mgtow.com/ Level 1: Situational awareness. This level includes men who are aware ofthe realities that face them in society, and yet deem the risks acceptable tohave a go at playing the game.Level 2: Rejection of long-term relationships. Man who rejects all form oflong-term personal relationships with women, including but not limited tomarriage, cohabitation of any sort which might be classified as common-lawmarriage, picking up for a single mother's children, or any action whichmight be used in court to turn him into her legal indentured servant.Level 3: Rejection of short-term relationships. Man who rejects all form ofpersonal relationships with women, including dating, one-night stands,friendships, etc. Any contact with unfamiliar women is kept strictlyprofessional and at a minimum.Level 4: Economic disengagement. Man who refuses to produce more thanis strictly necessary for his individual survival. He will limit actions that arepunished by taxation without jeopardizing his way of life and acceptablestandard of living.Obviously Level 1 is great, and something we here at TRP agree with, butThe Red Pill Han
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