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LOVE TEXTS Make Any Man Yours.Through TextingBY AMY NORTH
Amy NorthDATING & RELATIONSHIP COACHAmy North is a relationship coach, Youtuber andbest-selling author from Vancouver, Canada. Shespecializes in helping women from around theworld find and keep the man of their dreams. Amy’sacclaimed online programs, Text Chemistry andThe Devotion System, have sold nearly 100,000copies and are widely considered to be amongthe best and most comprehensive women’s datingguides on the planet.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING2
How can I get him interested if he won’t eventalk to me?I knew it was coming but when I heard thatquestion, I immediately cringed. I knew she couldsee it on my face.It’s the one question that I’d been trying to answermy whole career, and I’m notthe only one.Janine was one ofthe most beautiful,loving, intelligentwomen I’d evermet and I knewshe was this guy’sperfect match butNONE OF THATMATTERED becausehe wouldn’t even talkto her.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING3
She was still staring at me.Tears were beginning toform in her eyes andbeyond that, she waslooking for answers.But I was speechless.Then somethingamazing happened.I felt my phone buzz inmy pocket and suddenlyeverything fell into place.If you’re reading this, I knowyou’ve run into this problemthat feels like a brick wall. I know plenty of womenwho found the guy of their dreams and lost himbecause a breakdown in communication made itimpossible to get close to him.Without fail they all eventually cut their losses.They had no choice but to move on and settle forsomeone else.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING4
But you don’t have to.Because after years ofresearch I’ve found thefoolproof way to breakthrough this barrier.You can send himtexts that will makehim feel like you’re theonly woman in the worldthat exists because you’rethe only one who trulyunderstands him.I can teach you the magic words that will makeany guy go from just passing by to completelylovestruck in seconds.It doesn’t have anything to do with what you looklike, how smart or interesting you are, or even if youthink you’ve already messed things up with himbeyond repair.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING5
You can get the man of your dreams to break thesilence and go from a crush to your lifelong partner.I’m going to tell you exactly how.I’m also going to tell you why that coaching sessionwith Janine was the most important of my careerbecause it unlocked a secret for me that foreverchanged my understanding of how women and meninteract.The answer to both of these secrets is actually thesame, and it has to do with text messaging.Do you like to watch? You can get the sameinformation by watching my free videopresentation all the way through. The first stepto everlasting love is just a click away.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING6
WHAT MEN WANT OUT OF TEXTING
To understand why men text (and why they don’t)you have to understand what men want. First, stoplistening to men on this subject. The truth is thatmen have no idea what they want.That means you can safely ignore the idea that theman you like is looking for the perfect, independentwoman who loves sports and beer and will bendover backwards to please him in any way.Think about it.How many women doyou know with hugehearts, big brains,and amazing looksthat can’t seem toget a guy to stickaround?It’s because, while thesethings are nice, they won’tmake any difference to aguy if she doesn’t give himLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING8
what he really wants. And what men really want isactually hard wired into their brains.Men want to chase youPlaying hard to get isn’tas simple as somepeople make it outto be. If you’ve everplayed with a catand a string you’llunderstand thisprinciple. You need tobring the string closeenough to them to getthem interested but just outof their reach.Men thrive on challenge and proving themselves.They often don’t know what to do when a goodthing just falls right into their lap.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING9
Men want to provideMen have an innate need to provide for women.These days, this doesn’t mean that they want tobring you home a wooly mammoth but it meansthey want to be useful to you in some way. Whetherit means giving you a ride to work, mowing yourlawn or just providing you with some information,it’s important to feed these ancient providerinstincts that are deep in the heart of every man.Men want a committedrelationshipEven though manywomen find itdifficult to get a guyto settle down, thatis what men actuallywant. It’s not that theydon’t want a relationship,or even that they haven’tLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING10
met the right woman yet. It’s that the women they’vebeen dating haven’t given them exactly what theywant and need.So what does any of this have to do with texting?Everything.This is actually way more important when you’rejust texting a guy than when you’re seeing him faceto face. In person you have access to body language,pheromones, and all the non-verbal aspects offlirting and seduction.But when you’re texting you have to use languageand verbal behaviour to get him interested.When I applied this information to Janine’ssituation, it changed everything.First, let’s talk about Janine and Ethan. She was agraduate student in music and a virtuoso pianoplayer. She was extremely fit and a former gymnastLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING11
so she was able to put both legs behind her headwithout breaking a sweat.Janine’s dream guy was Ethan. Ethan started asher hot TA in undergrad. They hit it off right away.She’d always stay after class to talk to them andmore than once they ended up hanging out in theempty classroom for hours.Then, one night, at thedepartment mixer theywere together outsidethe campus pub. Thesun was settingand there was noone else around.Janine saw thatEthan had thatlook in his eyes.When he leaned into kiss her, it was likethe whole world stoppedturning just for them.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING12
Three Sexting Rules1. KEEP IT FUNNY AND FLIRTYSexting is only awkward if you make itthat way. Being flirty and silly are superimportant to breaking the tension anddriving him wild.2. A LITTLE GOES A LONG WAYThis shouldn’t be a daily or even weeklyoccurrence. The less often you get X-ratedwith his inbox, the more exciting it will bewhen you do.3. DON’T BE SHYIf you decide to do some sexy texting witha guy, don’t hold back. If you’re going tosend nudes, don’t do it half-assed.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING13
Looking for foolproof sexts that will turnhim on with zero risk of embarrassment?Click here to watch my free videopresentation. I call it “Text Chemistry”because it gives you the exact wordsand phrases which will create a powerfulreaction in any man out there. Not onlywill these texts stimulate his mind andbody, they’ll move his heart. Check it outright now.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING14
Janine got his number that night and they texteda few times but, somehow, that was as far as thingsever went. He’d respond toher messages a few hourslate if at all.They’d pass eachother in the hallwaysand make smalltalk but everyconversation wasawkward and fellflat. She felt like shewas talking to somedistant relative.Where was the sexy,impulsive Ethan that hadheld her in his arms the night of the party?LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING15
WHY MEN DON’T TEXT YOU BACK
This is the real question we have to answer tounderstand what is happening here and how tochange it.There are several reasons men don’t text backand they’re all very simple. He knows what you’regoing to say.Texting, like conversation issupposed to be exciting.If your every answer ispredictable and boringthen why should heeven text you at all?If a guy is feelingthis way then hehas no motivationto text you back,much less ask youout again.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING17
He doesn’t think you’re interested.This problem comes up time and time again.Playing hard to get is important but HARD is theoperative word here. Not impossible. If he thinksthat you either don’t know he exists or hate hisguts then why would he want to send you a textmessage? Make sure yourteasing doesn’t cross a line.He’s just not excitedabout it.There are plenty ofwomen I’ve talkedto who say “I suck attexting”. Sorry ladies,that’s not an excuse anymore.I can tell you what to say and when to say it tomake a guy dive for his phone in the middle of anLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING18
important meeting. This is the kind of excitementyou need to create to keep a guy interested andexcited about talking to you and seeing you as soonas possible.When I felt my phone buzz in my pocket that daywith Janine, it hit me like a bolt of lightning: I’dbeen ignoring the very thing that was the key tohelping her win Ethan’s heart, and the very reasonthat he’d cooled off in the first place. The answerwas in her phone.Texts Men HATEThis is where weget into the juicystuff. Not only arethere texts that canmake any man yourswith just a few taps,there are a few that turnoff almost every guy andLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING19
make him want to delete your number. And they’refrighteningly common. I bet you’ve sent a few ofthese yourself.“What’s up?”You may be genuinelyasking him this questionbut it’s still a boringmessage. It’s basicallysaying “Hey, I’mbored but I don’twant to make anyreal effort to havea conversation withyou. I’d rather makeyou do the work andentertain me.”Next to some cheesy pickupline, it’s one of the least responded to openingmessages on dating apps so why should thisconversation be any different?LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING20
Starting off with a questionisn’t usually the best movebut it’s especially badwhen it’s somethingthis uninteresting.Variation of thisinclude “hello”,“how’s it going?”,“what are you up to?”These can be great inperson but with textingyou need to make more ofan effort to put personality andexcitement into your texts.“Hey stranger”Anything that says “why haven’t you been textingme?” is a mistake. These early stages are abouthaving fun and getting to know one another. If he’sLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING21
pulling away then trying to correct his behaviour isjust going to have the opposite effect that you want.Sure enough when I looked at Janine’s conversationwith Ethan, my suspicions were confirmed. She wasmaking all the mistakes that I’ve identified in thisguide.The truth was that Ethanand Janine had amazingchemistry face to face butshe had no idea how tocommunicate with himover text message.She was asking a lot ofboring questions. She wasgiving one word answersto thoughtful questionsand then huge paragraphsabout her day out ofnowhere. Her texts lookedlike the ones I get frommy grandpa.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING BackEthanContactHey! I’ve got somefamily coming to townand I know you knowall the good brunchplaces. Do you havea recommendation forme?Hello. I like Tanya’s on4thThanks! :) I owe youone.22
Ethan not only got the sense that she was boredwith him from the way she texted. He felt that shedidn’t want to talk to him and that made him notinterested in talking to her. Remember that a lot ofguys won’t just relentlessly pursue you if they thinkyou’re not interested. And these are the guys youwant. They’re listening to the unconscious signalsyou’re giving off even if you aren’t aware of it. Andwith texting, these signals are louder than they areanywhere else.Emojis are importantEmojis may not be the most high brow thing in theworld but good texting is casual. A couple of emojiscan spice up a boring text when you don’t haveanything else to say.Studies show that guys like these emojis the best:LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING23
But steer clear of these ones:With my help, Janine figured out what to say toEthan and when and after a few weeks, he got themessage and asked her out. They’re still together tothis day.This may not be the mostexciting match I’ve evermade but for me it’s themost important.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING24
THE TEXTS THAT MENACTUALLY WANT TO GET
Knowing what not to texthim will make sure youdon’t hurt your chancesor scare a guy off, butif you want to gethim hooked on youthen you need toknow the kind ofmessages that menwant to get.These are the texts that willmake his heart skip a beat.When he reads one of these messages you’llbecome the only woman in the world to him.If you send him these he might as well delete everynumber in his phone because he’ll only be using itto talk to you from now on.And the power of these texts come in theanswer to the question Janine asked me wayLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING26
back at the beginning:How can I get him interested if he won’t eventalk to me?The truth is you can’t. You need to get himtalking and to do this you need to become a real,3-dimensional woman to him using just your cellphone and the power of language.Modern relationships are marked by a problem ofdisconnection that is caused by new technologieslike texting, dating apps and social media thatcreate not only false expectations but place barriersbetween us in the form of impersonal screens andcurated profiles.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING27
This places many women at a disadvantage. Thoseof us who don’t excel at communicating in this way.Those of us who’d much rather hang out one on oneand get to know a guy through dating rather thanfocus on presenting ourselves in the virtual world.But don’t lose hope. If you’re reading this, you’realready at an advantage over all the other womenout there. You’ve realized your problem and you’reactively working towards a solution. And thesolution comes in the form of understanding theproper use of language through texting.The next step is an easy one: watch my free videopresentation. That’s where I reveal the secretformula to make any man fall in love with just threetexts. It sounds crazy because it is crazy. It’s notlogical how these texts can completely transformany man from a hit-it-and-quit-it bad boy into theloving, committed partner of your dreams. Watchthe short video right now and see for yourself.That’s what I’ve dedicated most of my past threeyears doing. I’ve done the research so you don’tLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING28
have to. You just have to takemy advice to maximize yourresults.Think of it this way: cellphones are the newbicycles.In the late 19th century, awoman’s place was in thehome. Women would stay inand do housework, cooking,or sewing and the men would come to them, asgentlemen callers.This left women’s romantic fate largely up to theirfamilies and the men who decided to court them.This put them in a passive position as they hadlittle chance but to wait and hope that the manwho came courting was someone they could seespending their life with.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING29
But then this all changed with the invention of themodern bicycle.Your Techniques Worked Like Magic!Hey Amy . I gave a few of your techniquesa try like the stuff about texting and your“Love Buzz Mindset” and honestly, theyworked like MAGIC! he began calling andtexting me out of the blue asking ME outon a date . I feel like I’m living in a dreamworld. Thanks again!”- Jessica S., CaliforniaBikes were cheaper than a horse because it didn’tneed to be stabled, fed, or cared for.Bicycles were simple to use, easy to acquire andmore fun and accessible than any other form oftransportation.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING30
In the 1880s, the streets swarmed with them.Businessmen rode to work. Cycling tracks, bicycleshops, and cycling clubs wereeverywhere and mapmakersturned their attentiontowards road maps andguides to cater tothis newly mobilepopulation.This wasthe greatesttransportationrevolution untilthe invention of theautomobile.And not only did it change the way people gotaround, it created unprecedented freedom forwomen. No longer were women stuck inside,waiting for men to come to them. They were out inthe streets, riding bicycles.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING31
Let me tell you what I think of bicycling.I think it has done more to emancipatewomen than anything else in the world. Itgives women a feeling of freedom and selfreliance. I stand and rejoice every time I see awoman ride by on a wheel the picture of free,untrammeled womanhood.”- Susan B AnthonyGone were the homebound courtship rituals andstuffy ballroom dances of the past. Instead, womenchose where and when to go and who to go with.With the popularity of bicycles increasing, womeneschewed constrictive dresses and skirts for modesttrousers and bloomers.The modern “woman on a wheel” cut a captivatingand mysterious figure for the men of the time. Theystopped hanging around doorways and beneathbalconies waving handkerchiefs and went wherethe women were, out in the streets, hoping to attractone of these mysterious cycling sirens.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING32
It really doesn’t matter much where this oneindividual young lady is going on her wheel .What the interested public wishes to know is,where are all the women on wheels going?”- San Fransisco Caller, 1895Bicycles gave women freedom to control their ownromantic destiny and with that, allowed an entirelynew dynamic between men and women.Cell phones have had the same effect on dating inthe 21st century as bicycles did in the 19th.Texting, social media, and dating apps have createda brand new romantic revolution for women oftoday. They’re even cheaper, more accessible andmore connective than bikes were back then. Theyallow you to find, attract, and communicate withmen anytime and anywhere.But just like the women of the 19th century, you caneither get on the bike and ride or be left behind inyour drawing room.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING33
Follow these texting tips to have men crossing fivelanes of traffic just to glimpse your tire tracks, justdon’t forget to wear a helmet!Get on the bike and rideMany women bemoan the lack of quality men andthe difficulty of texting without ever really makingan effort. I won’t say texting is a numbers game butyou need to be reaching out and talking to men ifyou want them to know you’re there.Stay on courseWhen texting a guy youlike, be focused and clear.Texting in the earlystages is about being funand flirty, getting to knowone another, and sendingsignals. It’s not about ventingabout your frustrations andpersonal problems.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING34
Watch out for road blocksEvery person has things theysimply don’t want to talkabout. These can be stickingpoints in a conversation.Being mindful of a man’sresponses to different topicsand areas of conversation.There are certain “stop” wordsand phrases I teach you to identifyin my Text Chemistry Guide sothat you can plot a new course inyour conversation. Avoid these at all costs if you’retrying to get closer to him.“Look Ma, no hands”Good texting should be effortless. I know, it’seasier said than done but once you figure out theformula and get a good flow going you won’t needLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING35
to agonize over every emoji and punctuation mark.You’ll be able to simple speak from your heart andbe your real self.Completely Transformed The Way IInteract With Men!”The psychological strategies you’ve taughtme have completely transformed the wayI interact with men I no longer have tochase them down for attention and dates.they come to me now! My only regret is notcoming across your program sooner. Thankyou so much Amy xoxo”- Chelsey M., UKRide with abandonGood, exciting texting conversation should havean edge of danger. Guys need to know that you’restrong and unafraid to push boundaries, tease, andbe flirty.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING36
Keep it low key at first but don’t be afraid to gooffroad into topics and comments that make younervous. It’s better to be risky than it is to be boring!Be seen in the streetsSet yourself apart from other women by textingwith personality and enthusiasm. This means beingdetailed in your messages, using exclamationpoints and emojis, and evensending pictures.Remember, if this guyhas your attention thenchances are there areother girls who feelthe same way. Don’tlet boring textstake you out of therunning.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING37
TEXTS MEN RESPOND TO
Through a combination of real world research,psychological principles, and rigorous testing, I’vedeveloped dozens of texts that will make any man’sheart.What follows are just a few of my best texts. Formore targeted texts and clever one-liners that youcan just copy and paste to make men melt,click here to watch my free video presentationright now.The Feel Good TextYou want your texts tomake him feel warminside. There areplenty of ways to dothis: compliments,positivity, and jokes.Here’s a great one to useDURING a date that hitsall three. Normally I’d adviseLOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING39
you to leave your phone off during the date but thisone is an exception.“The server is totallyflirting with you”Not only is this a greatway to show a guythat you think he’sdesirable, it makeshim feel goodabout himself andyou’re complimentinghim indirectly withoutmaking a whole thing outof it. Plus, it gives you two alittle sexy secret that no oneelse knows.The InfluencerNot a traditional “text message” strictly speaking butif you follow him on Instagram you have to try this.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING40
Respond to one of his instagram stories.This ups your chances of a response and a greatconversation when compared to just texting himout of nowhere.The Instagram response works for several reasons.One, it’s not out of the blue. You’re responding tosomething he’s put out there rather than reachingout to him for no reason. Plus it’s on social mediaso you don’t have to worry abouthaving his phone number. Two,it’s a great way to talk aboutsomething you know he’sinterested in and excitedabout.Say he posts a photoof a good lookingplate of nachos. Simplyreplying with “That looksso good! Where did you getthat?” is an easy, breezy wayto get a conversation doing.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING41
Then, the next time you post a cute selfie he’s morelikely to slide back into your dms.The Teasing TextTeasing is the gatewayto flirting and that’swhere you want to be.More than almostany other text thisone gets his bloodpumping and not onlythat, it opens up theconversation to more funbanter.How you tease a guy willdepend on what the guy is like and what he’s into.I recommend picking some positive quality (likea talent or skill) and then turning it around onhim in a fun and funny way.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING42
Here are a couple examples“What are you doing later?Do you feel like gettingdestroyed at pool?”“You know what they sayabout guys with blue eyes?Terrible kissers ;)”Notice that these lean heavier onthe positive than the negative.If you know he has a favouritesports team, band, or hobby,then use this informationto your advantage. It’slike saying “I know youbut I’m not afraid of you.”When teasing it’s importantthat he knows you’re kidding.When in doubt a winking emojiwill clear up any ambiguity.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING43
The Specific QuestionNothing will kill a texting conversation faster thanboring, cookie-cutter questions. No one wants tohave the same conversation over and over again.The way around this is to make your questionsmore specific. The best questions get him talkingwhile also showing off yourpersonality and wit.And turning a boringquestion into an excitingone just takes changinga few words.So instead of asking“What’s your favoriteband?” something like“What’s the best band you’veever seen live?”This lets him know that you’reinto live music and instead of just answering withone word, it gives him a chance to tell a story.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING44
Here’s a fun one that you can try if you two havebeen talking for awhile and you feel like you’re bothrunning out of things to say but clearly don’t wantto end the conversation.“Want to take my survey?It’s only twenty questions”Then you ask him a seriesof ‘either or’ questionslike “Pizza or burgers?”,“movies or TV?”, and“Pub or club?”This fun, short game thatwill show him that you’re notafraid to be silly.As you get farther into this then you can drop infunnier and more revealing questions.Just avoid questions that feel like a job interview. Thismeans make sure they’re fun and easy to answer.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING45
The Risky TextIt’s simple direct and brave. This shouldn’t beyour first text to a guy but if you’re not sure if he’sgetting the hint and you don’t have anything tolose, why not put it out there.“Hey, you’re cute”“I’m using my last 2% ofbattery to tell you that I’mthinking about you”Use this one to further flirtingwith a guy when you can’tthink of anything else.It works because it’ssurprising and catcheshim off guard. Texting isabout being spontaneousand interesting, not safe andboring.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING46
These are just a taste of the powerful textingtechniques and strategies that I outline in detailin my Text Chemistry Program. It’s packed withdozens of sample texts that are tailored to specificsituations. Is the guy you’re into shy? Is he married?Does he seem like he has no interest in dating you?Don’t worry. I’ve got you covered with my TripleText System that men are powerless to resist. It’sall about igniting a man’s pleasure, protector, andpredator impulses to change his brain chemistryso he has no choice but to hold you in his arms andnever let go.LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING47
LOVE TEXTS MAKE HIM YOURS WITH TEXTING 6 You can get the man of your dreams to break the silence and go from a crush to your lifelong partner. I'm going to tell you exactly how.
