15 Steps To Becoming A Master Seducer Kezia Noble

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15 Steps To Becoming A Master Seducer KeziaNoble1. 15 Steps To Becoming A Master Seducer Kezia Noble2. ABOUT THE AUTHOR3. RAPID BUILD-UP OF THE 'CHEMISTRY SENSATION'4. UNDERSTANDING WHAT WOMEN WANT5. CONFIDENCE AND THE MISTAKE OF BEING VAGUE6. THE STAGE7. THE THREE ELEMENTS OF ATTRACTION8. THE FORMULA OF ATTRACTION9. CONTROL10. EXCUSES, EXCUSES11. IMPACT12. CONNECTION13. PRE-APPROACH14. THE OPENER15. CONVERSATION SKILLS AND THE NINE-HOOK LEADSYSTEM16. 15 STEPS TO BECOMING A MASTER SEDUCER 17. HOOK LEAD SIX: ANECDOTES18. HOOK LEAD SEVEN: TASKS19. HOOK LEAO EIGHT: VALIDATION20. HOOK LEAO NINE: ASSUMPTION21. THE TWO-OPTION ASSUMPTION22. SUMMARY OF THE NINE-HOOK LEAD SYSTEM23. PRACTICE24. VALIDATION25. BITCH SHIELDS26. FINAL REMINDERS ON DESTROYING BITCH SHIELDS27. SEXUAL ESCALATION28. CLOSING29. THE PHONE CALL30. GOOD GUYS VS. BAD GUYS31. NEVER GOING BACK TO ZERO

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ABOUT THE AUTHORKEZIA NOBLE was born in London. She began a music career in 2003,which led to considerable success and a record deal in the US. Keziabelieved that a career in the music industry was her destiny, until an out-ofthe-blue occurrence in 2006 introduced her to the ‘pickup’/seductioncommunity.One evening, in a trendy bar in the heart of London, a trainer from one ofthe largest PUA (‘pickup artistry’) companies in the world asked her tocome along to one of their weekend workshops. Kezia was a sceptic at first,but, after witnessing the astonishing results when men followed systemictechnical advice in the art of picking up women, she soon became a femalecoach. Kezia’s knowledge and techniques were born from her observationsof men considered to be naturals - i.e. consistently successful seducers ofwomen - combined with the knowledge obtained from working with someof the PUA gurus.Kezia has since built a major personal following even among men notpreviously aware that a seduction community existed. Her expertise hasmade her the world’s premier female PUA trainer, and is now coming to theattention of the wider public and the mass media.

CONTENTSFirst published in paperback 2010 by Pennant Books.Text copyright 2010 by Kezia Noble.The moral right of the author has been asserted.Cover photos Lionel Cohen.All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored ina retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic,mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the priorpermission in writing of the publisher, except by a reviewer who wishes toquote brief passages in connection with a review written for insertion in anewspaper, magazine or broadcast.British Library Cataloguing-in-Publication Data:

A catalogue record for this book is available on request from The BritishLibraryISBN 978-1-906015-99-2Design 8c Typeset by Envy Design Ltd.Printed Great Britain by CPI Bookmarque Ltd, Croydon CR0 4TD.Every reasonable effort has been made to acknowledge the ownership ofcopyright material included in this book. Any errors that have inadvertentlyoccurred will be corrected in subsequent editions provided notification issent to the publisher.Pennant Books PO Box 5675 London W1A 3FBwww.pennantbooks.comINTRODUCTION IXAUGUST 2003 IXOCTOBER 2006 XXTHE WEEKEND BOOT CAMP XXIIIMARCH 2008: DEJA VU XXXVSTEP ONE: UNDERSTANDING CHEMISTRY 1ROMANTICISM VERSES PRACTICALITY 1SLOW BUILD-UP OF THE 'CHEMISTRY SENSATION' 3RAPID BUILD-UP OF THE 'CHEMISTRY SENSATION' 6STEP TWO: UNDERSTANDING WHAT WOMEN WANT 11KNOWING YOUR TARGET 13

FAMILIARITY 15THE NEED WITHIN 16THE PRIMAL NEED 17THE EVER-CHANGING DESIRES 18STEP THREE: CONFIDENCE AND THE MISTAKE OF BEING VAGUE21JUST BE CONFIDENT? 21PINPOINTING YOUR STICKING POINTS 23PINPOINTING YOUR STRENGTHS 26STEP FOUR: THE STAGE 31WHAT IS THE STAGE? 31THE WEAK STAGE 32THE STRONG STAGE 33THE SIX COLUMNS OF YOUR STAGE 34FIRST COLUMN: LEG POSITION 35SECOND COLUMN: ARMS 37THIRD COLUMN: HANDS 38FOURTH COLUMN: EYE CONTACT 40FIFTH COLUMN: FACIAL EXPRESSION 43THE NERVOUS LAUGH 46SIXTH COLUMN: VOCAL TONE 47

SUMMARY OF THE STAGE 50STEP FIVE: THE THREE ELEMENTS OF ATTRACTION 55THE FORMULA OF ATTRACTION 56CONTROL 57EXCUSES, EXCUSES 58IMPACT 62CONNECTION 65STEP SIX: PRE-APPROACH 75ASSESSING THE SITUATION 75DISCRETION 76WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR 79OUTCOME DEPENDENCE 80MARKS OUT OF TEN 81CREATING YOUR LIST 83THE NEW PRE-APPROACH FRAME OF MIND 84STEP SEVEN: THE OPENER 85A MESSAGE ABOUT CANNED MATERIAL 88STEP EIGHT: CONVERSATION SKILLS AND THE NINE-HOOKLEAD SYSTEM 91"BUT I CAN TALK SO WELL WITH MY FRIENDS" 92THE NINE-HOOK LEAD SYSTEM 93

HOOKS 94HIGH-CALIBRE AND LOW-CALIBRE HOOKS 94HOOK LEAD ONE: OPEN QUESTION 97HOOK LEAD TWO: FACT 99HOOK LEAD THREE: OPINION 100THE DIFFUSION TECHNIQUE 102HOOK LEAD FOUR: CHALLENGE 103HOOK LEAD FIVE: HUMOUR 104HOOK LEAD SIX: ANECDOTES 108HOOK LEAD SEVEN: TASKS 114HOOK LEAD EIGHT: VALIDATION 116HOOK LEAD NINE: ASSUMPTION 116THE TWO-OPTION ASSUMPTION 119SUMMARY OF THE NINE-HOOK LEAD SYSTEM 120PRACTICE 123STEP NINE: VALIDATION 125POSITIVE VALIDATION 128NEGATIVE VALIDATION 131PUSH-PULL TECHNIQUE 141SUMMARY 142

STEP TEN: BITCH SHIELDS 145WHY DO WOMEN HAVE BITCH SHIELDS? 146DESTROYING BITCH SHIELDS 148VALIDATE, VALIDATE AND VALIDATE! 152FINAL REMINDERS ON DESTROYING BITCH SHIELDS 156STEP 11: SEXUAL ESCALATION 159WHAT IS SEXUAL ESCALATION? 160WHY ARE SOME MEN USELESS AT SEXUAL ESCALATION? 161THE THREE STAGES 164THE DIPPING TECHNIQUE 169EFFECTIVE DIPPING 170ASSESSING THE SITUATION 171WHAT NEXT? 173FLIRTING 173STEP 12: CLOSING 175GETTING A NUMBER AS A RESULT OF DAYTIME OR DIRECTAPPROACHES 176 THE NICKNAME NUMBER CLOSE 180MAKING SURE YOU DON'T GET A 'FLAKY NUMBER' 181ONLINE ROMANCE? NO WAY! 183STEP 13: THE PHONE CALL 185THIRD DAY LOGIC 186

WHAT TIME? 187THE PHONE CALL 188STEP 14: GOOD GUYS VS. BAD GUYS 191THE BAD GUY 192THE GOOD GUY 195THE NICE GUY 197WHY DO NICE GUYS CONTINUE TO BE 'NICE'? 199STEP 15: NEVER GOING BACK TO ZERO 203WHAT IF SHE THREATENS TO LEAVE? 208AUTHOR'S POSTSCRIPT 211INTRODUCTIONAUGUST 2003Saturday night out with the girls. We hadn’t seen each other for a fewmonths. I’d been away on a particularly long summer break, and I waseager to see them all again. We’d been friends since college; over the spaceof a few years we’d cried on each other’s shoulders when relationships hadgone sour, we’d argued over everything and anything, before alwaysmaking up by admitting that we were wrong. We helped each other in ourhours of need and shared laughter, holidays and birthdays. In that time we’dgrown from girls to adult women.Here we all were, still friends and celebrating the fact that through thick andthin, laughter and tears - we remained close.It was a typical busy Saturday night in London; we were sipping cocktailsat one of the most fashionable clubs of the moment. The London partyscene was out in full force: beautiful people; famous people; cool people;

strange people; rich people; people who wanted to be rich; people whowanted to be famous. And then there were people just out to enjoy life,exactly like we were doing.We were attracting plenty of male attention and, as a result of that and somelethal cocktails, our egos were getting bigger and bigger. 15 STEPS TO BECOMING A MASTER SEDUCER Men were sending us bottles of champagne; some were brave enough tocome over to speak, some tried to dance with us, but all were sent back totheir tables with tails firmly between their legs. We even turned down twofairly well-known celebrities, who were particularly annoyed with us fornot falling at their feet like most women immediately did.The thing was, we didn’t care. We were on a high, enjoying being together,laughing at the attention we were receiving, and besides - two out of thefive of us had boyfriends.I, however, did not. But I did have my eye on someone at work, in fact Iwas a little transfixed by him. Any man who spoke to me was automaticallyand unfavourably compared to him. I remember feeling the need to make aphone call, maybe to check up on him or to shamelessly remind him howmuch I liked him.I went outside where it was quieter; it was a particularly pleasant warmnight. Perhaps fortunately for me, his phone was off and all I got was hisanswer machine. His cute voice came on and made me feel warm inside. Ileft a message on his voicemail and closed shut the phone. As I was aboutto turn and go back inside the club, I heard a voice from behind me.“Why are you speaking so loudly?”I turned around to see a rather ordinary looking guy leaning back in arelaxed manner, with his foot up on the wall behind him. He was kind ofcute, but a little short for my liking; his clothes were a bit too casual for mytaste too.

“Excuse me?” I replied, feeling sure he’d made a mistake and thought I wasone of his friends.He took a drag from his cigarette and looked into my eyes defiantly.“You’re speaking very loudly, when there’s no noise around you. Justthought it was a bit eccentric, that’s all. ” He smiled.“Yes, sometimes I speak loudly. So what?” I retaliated, lookinghim up and down in an authoritative manner. But he was right. There wasno noise.“You and your friends have been speaking really loudly all night, that’sprobably why you’re still shouting. Don’t worry about it,” he laughed.“I’m not worried about it!” I fired back, getting annoyed with him. I beganto search for a cigarette in my bag. I wanted to go but, for some reason, Istayed, probably because I didn’t want to seem like I was running scaredfrom him or his remarks.He came over and lit my cigarette.“Thanks,” I mumbled. I wanted to tell him not to bother, but realised asusual that I had no lighter.“You’re welcome.” He smiled, returning to his original position.“Who’s your friend?” he asked“Which one?”“The one that all the guys like,” he replied, taking another drag from hiscigarette.My mind began to race. We were all getting attention. Who was he talkingabout? I began to feel jealous, which soured my mood.“The one in the blue dress,” he said, noticing my apparent confusion.

“Christina?” I replied.“Is that her name?”I began to feel jealous toward Christina. It wasn’t anything major, just apang of mild envy, but I’d never felt anything like that before about her. Ididn’t like it at all, she was a dear friend of mine, a great girl, but for somereason I resented the fact that she was apparently getting more attentionthan the rest of us.Then I realised that this guy may have been winding me up, so I playedalong.“Well, I can introduce you to her if you like,” I responded.“That’s okay, I can introduce myself if I really want. I’m 15 STEPS TO BECOMING A MASTER SEOUCER Leo, by the way.” He put his hand out to mine. I accepted his handshake.“I’m Kezia.”He began laughing.“What?” I said, getting increasingly annoyed with him.“If I tell you, will you promise to not be offended?”“Promise. Now, what’s so funny?”“It’s beautiful, but when I was a kid I can remember that my friend had ahamster with a very similar name - something like Kezia, or Keza.”Although I tried not to, I couldn’t help but laugh. My guard had comedown.He took the last drag of his cigarette and rubbed my arm gently, beforeleaving me standing on my own.

“I’ll catch you inside the club later,” he said, before turning back andmouthing the words, “And stop speaking so fucking loudly!”I stood there with my phone still in my hand, wondering what had justhappened. How had I been made to experience so many emotions withinjust a few minutes by a complete stranger who was not my type and wasalso, frankly, a little too cheeky?My thoughts were interrupted by the ringing of my phone. It was the guy Ihad been trying to call before this whole episode. I didn’t answer, figuringhe could wait for a bit. Isn’t it funny how what we consider important canchange in just a couple of minutes?Back in the club, I began discreetly watching my friend Christina and themen all around us. Are they really looking just at her? I asked myself.I began looking for Leo too. I was curious to know where he was, who hewas with, but he was nowhere to be seen.I did, however, notice that one of my friends was in conversation with twovery attractive men. She gave me one of our subtle little signs which meant,‘join in.’ (We also had a sign xii for ‘help’, as well as ‘maybe help me soon’ - but this wa

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