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52 MUST-HAVED AT E N I G H TC O N V E R S AT I O NS TA R T E R SFOR A MARRIAGE AFTER GODThese 52 unique conversation starters are intended to helpyou and your spouse jump into intentional conversationsas the two of you continue to cultivate intimacy andexperience growth in your marriage. As you two experience thenext year of date nights, whether you have a “date night in” after the kids goto bed or go out for an evening of fun, we encourage you to use one ofthese conversation starters to inspire your topic of discussion and enjoysharing your hearts with one another. Our hope is that over the next 52 weeksthe two of you prioritize a weekly date night, and that you have deep,intentional conversations on these date nights about how God is moving inyour lives as you pursue building a Marriage After God together!One fun way to do this is to print out these conversation starters, cut themup, fold them up, and then place them in a mason jar. That way they areready to use, and all you have to do is take turns drawing one!
1My favorite thing about you is.2What are some things I do on a regular basis that fill you with joy?3In what ways has God used me to inspire you to be a better person?4What is a favorite meal you would like to make together? And who can we inviteover to bless with this meal?5Is there an area of our marriage we are not unified in that we can work on?6When we look back over our years of marriage, I would hope people knew usto be.7If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be and why?8What has God been teaching you lately?9I thank God for our life together because 10 What worship song has been on your heart lately and how is it impacting you?11 Three things I am thankful for about you are.12 Is there anything you want to share with me that has been weighing heavy onyour heart?13 My favorite marriage moment so far is.14 The one thing that worries me most about the future is.15 What can I do for you that will help cultivate intimacy in our relationship?16 If you could choose one Old Testament story to have been a part of andexperienced, what would it be and why?
17 What is your favorite memory from us dating?18 The one area I would encourage you to intentionally grow in would be.19 If you could have dinner with anyone from the Bible (not Jesus because He’s agiven!), who would it be and why?20 What kinds of things do you consider most romantic?21 I like it when you.22 Who are some people in our lives that our family can uniquely love on and howcan we do it this next week?23 One of the hardest areas of marriage for me is.24 Did anything happen this last week that hurt you or that we can improve uponas a couple?25 If we spent time organizing one area of the house this week, what would it beand what would we need to do?26 Our marriage works best when.27 Is there any part of my work routine that is negatively impacting our marriageor our family?28 How might we use our work to build God’s kingdom?29 What is my favorite candy/dessert?30 What financial goal(s) should we pursue next?31 If you could spend a week with your ancestors or your great-great-greatgrandchildren, who would you choose and why?
32 What is one way you would want me to love you this next week?33 How might God want us to use our finances to bless others?34 What is our vision for leaving a legacy with our family?35 How can I be praying for you this next week?36 What are you currently reading and how is it impacting you?37 How can we be participating in deeper fellowship with other believers?38 When you think about the end times, what’s your biggest question?39 What is your favorite memory from our wedding day?40 In your own words, what is the Gospel? Take turns sharing it with each other.41 Before God calls us home, what do you hope to accomplish here onearth together?42 If I was a superhero, who would you say I am and why?43 How have you been studying the Word and what has stood out to you?44 Our children would be so surprised if we 45 If you had 100 to spend on whatever you want, no strings or obligation attached,how would you spend it?46 Where do we want to be in five years?47 What is your favorite thing about us being intimate?
48 Do you have any dreams in your heart of things you want to do or create or learn?49 If we spent time tackling one project this week, what would it be and how couldwe do it?50 What vision do we have for the future?51 If we envision ourselves in our nineties, sitting on the porch in matching rockingchairs, you would look over at me and say, “I wish we ”52 If we could do anything together for a whole day, if money was not a question,what would you want to do?
these conversation starters to inspire your topic of discussion and enjoy sharing your hearts with one another. Our hope is that over the next 52 weeks the two of you prioritize a weekly date night, and that you have deep, intentional conversations on thes
