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Oooooh . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction andAural Sex can be described as 60% self-help and social commentary for menregarding their pursuit of short-term and/or non-monogamous (i.e., "casual")sexual companionship, and 40% detailed examples of erotically explicit dialoguethat author Alan Roger Currie used in his real-life verbal seduction experienceswith women. Readers will enjoy Currie's no-holds-barred writing style andentertaining, enlightening, and honest advice and wisdom.Oooooh Say it AgainMastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seductionand Aural SexOrder the complete book s/5901.html?s pdfor from your favorite neighborhoodor online bookstore.Your Free excerpt appears below. Enjoy!
Copyright 2011 Alan Roger CurrieISBN: 978-1-61434-885-6All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced,stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means,electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without the priorwritten permission of the author.Printed in the United States of America.Mode One Enterprises, Inc.2011http://www.modeone.netOther books and paperbacks by Author Alan Roger Currie:Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY ThinkingMode One – HARDCORE (eBook only)Upfront and Straightforward: Let the Manipulative Game PlayersKnow What You’re REALLY ThinkingMode One – Semantics and Scenarios (eBook only)
IntroductionSad to say, very few men will purchase a self-help book,particularly one about love, long-term romantic relationships, ormarriage. Women are overwhelmingly the primary buyers ofself-help books from the dating and relationships genre. Whenit comes to discussions about conversing with and interactingwith women, men primarily care about sex.Just about all single heterosexual men want to know aboutone or more of these three things: 1) how to be better at sex(e.g., how to maintain an erection for a longer period of timebefore orgasm, how to cause a woman to ‘squirt’ or experiencemore orgasms, etc.); 2) how to improve the quality or quantityof their female sex partners; and 3) how to get a womanaroused and in their bed without investing too much time or toomuch money. If a book offers advice related to one of thesethree areas, there is a good chance that a man will pick it up.This book primarily offers advice related to issue #3, and toa lesser extent, issue #2. I believe there are more than enoughbooks on the market currently that emphasize issue #1, so I donot really touch on that area at all.As a reader, the books that inspire me the most and that Itend to learn the most from are those that 1) ask the reader areally good question (or series of questions), and 2) proceed toprovide knowledge, wisdom, well thought out logic and validopinions, and even relevant data and statistics, that issupported by documented research that attempts to thoroughlyanswer that question (or questions) to the best of the author’sability.As an aspiring screenwriter and filmmaker living in LosAngeles, I would evaluate the vast majority of my favorite films1
Alan Roger Curriewith those criteria in mind. “What primary question is this filmposing? And what answers to that question is this film providingto viewers?”Take the 1987 film, Fatal Attraction starring AcademyAward winning actor Michael Douglas and Glenn Close. Thequestion this movie asked its audience, and in particular themale audience, is this:“What are some of the unforeseen repercussions andpotential consequences of having an adulterous weekend affairwith someone who you know very little, if anything about?”Just about every scene and major plot point in that film waseither directly or indirectly related to providing a visual answerto that question.As a writer, this is the format I use. Ask a compellingquestion, and then answer it in the most entertaining,enlightening and intellectually thorough manner as possible.If you have read my previous paperbacks, you’ll see that ineach book I posed one central question to my readers, andthen I used each individual chapter in each book to provide mybrand of knowledge, wisdom, philosophies and assertions thatattempted to answer that central question.Central Question #1:“How does the fear of being rejected by a woman andthe fear of being criticized or disliked by a woman inhibitthe ability of a single heterosexual man to approach awoman of interest, initiate a conversation with her, andultimately express his romantic or sexual desires, interestsand intentions?”The answer: Mode One: Let the Women Know WhatYou’re REALLY Thinking (the title of my first paperback)2
Oooooh Say it AgainCentral Question #2:“Alan, how does communicating with members of theopposite sex in a ‘Mode One’ manner help you quickly andeffectively identify or prevent ‘manipulative head games?’How can I distinguish when a man or woman sincerelyshares the same romantic or sexual desires, interests andintentions that I have, versus a man or woman who isreally intending to deceive me, mislead me, manipulate me,and toy with my emotions?”The answer: Upfront and Straightforward: Let theManipulative Game Players Know What You’re REALLYThinking (the title of my second paperback)I do not possess a Ph.D. in counseling or clinicalpsychology, marriage therapy, sex therapy, or any other relatedfield. I have earned my credibility as an author and datingcoach simply by having a history of offering advice to readersand clients that helped them solve their problems andultimately improve their love life, sex life, and overall social life.Arguably my best advice to male clients has been in theareas of 1) helping single heterosexual men overcome theirfear of being rejected so that they will soon start approachingmore women of interest and initiate a conversation with them,and 2) helping these same men overcome their fear of beingcriticized by women or their fear of receiving negative reactionsfrom women so that they will soon express their romantic andsexual desires, interests and intentions to women of interest ina more self-assured, upfront, forthright manner.Even though I am not a licensed psychologist or therapist, Ihave many clients in various countries who pay me by the hourfor advice and consultations. I receive positive testimonials fullof appreciation and gratitude on a monthly, if not weekly basis.3
Alan Roger CurrieSome people in society say that “sex is a very controversialsubject, and always will be.” I half-agree, and half-disagree.More specifically, it is kinky sex and promiscuous sexthat typically provokes strong opinions from many. There is noreal controversy regarding prudish, monogamous-minded JohnDoe having sex at 10:00 PM in the master bedroom with hisprudish, monogamous-minded wife Mary Ann Doe.Very few men and women want their sexual preferences,sexual habits, and sexual activities to become publicknowledge when they are engaging in sex that they know willbe perceived as kinky or polyamorous and promiscuous.My attitude is, once you are 18 years of age, you can dowhatever you choose to sexually as long as you are totallyaware of all of the potential emotional, social and health-relatedconsequences and repercussions that may accompany yourchoices and behavior.Many men and women in American society are naturallyhypocritical, duplicitous, self-righteous and judgmental when itcomes to issues related to sex. Remind yourself of this on aregular basis, otherwise you will eventually become agitated.I have been criticized, many times very harshly, by someconservative and deeply religious types for not discouragingsingle heterosexual men from engaging in premarital sex orpursuing women for short-term non-monogamous sex.I am not a minister or a preacher. I feel I have done my partby encouraging men to avoid being dishonest with women, andto avoid engaging in manipulative ‘head games’ with women.I have said it before, and I will say it (repeatedly) again: Ifyou are a man, and you know you just want short-term nonmonogamous (casual) sex with a woman, just TELL WOMENTHAT FROM THE GET-GO. This allows the woman to makeher own choice and decide whether or not to sleep with you.4
Oooooh Say it AgainPersonally, I have no issue with men and women engagingin any form of sex they choose, as long as it is mutuallyconsensual sexual activity, and the man and woman involvedare being upfront and straightforwardly honest with each otherabout their long-term desires, interests and intentions.As I discussed in my two previous paperbacks, Mode Oneand Upfront and Straightforward, anytime you are dishonest ormisleading about your interest or your lack of interest insome form of romantic or sexual relationship, you are engagingin manipulative ‘head games.’Why are there so many manipulative ‘head games’employed by both men and women related to dating andrelationships and the pursuit of sexual companionship?Here is a recap of the major games that members of bothgenders tend to engage in:Men’s primary manipulative ‘head games’:- Men who approach women, and give them the misleadingimpression that they want a sexual relationship that is bothlong-term and monogamous, when in reality, these men want asexual relationship that is short-term or non-monogamous.- Men who approach women, and give them the misleadingimpression that they are only interested in a platonic friendship,when they know deep-down they are interested in some form ofromantic or sexual companionship.- Men who offer women financial and non-financial “favors”under the guise of being ‘generous’ and ‘helpful,’ when inreality, they are expecting the women they are helping out to‘reward’ them with sex.- Men who give their spouses or long-term romanticcompanions the misleading impression that they are “in love”and being monogamous to their partner, when in actuality, theyare being unfaithful and having sex with “women on the side.”5
Alan Roger CurrieWomen’s primary manipulative ‘head games’:- Women who interact with men under the guise of beinggenuinely interested in them romantically or sexually, when inreality, they simply want flattering attention, entertaining socialcompanionship, financial and non-financial favors, or adependable, empathetic listening ear when they are frustratedor bored.- Women who ‘cock tease’ men on a regular or semi-regularbasis for their own egotistical satisfaction.- Women who date and marry men primarily for the man’slevel of social status, level of education, career success, orwealth, but in reality, they have no real romantic feelings forthese men or no real sexual attraction for these men, andultimately, they end up being unfaithful to these men andhaving sex with “men on the side.”- Women who pretend to be genuinely interested in acasual sex relationship with a man, when in reality, they reallywant a relationship that is long-term, emotionally profound, andmonogamous.Some in society say, “Most unwanted pregnancies comefrom short-term non-monogamous (casual) sex.” Bullshit.Statistics do not back that up. Most of the women I have metwho had babies out of wedlock got pregnant while they were ina long-term monogamous “boyfriend-girlfriend” relationship.Some in society say, “Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)are more frequently passed around because of casual sex.”Again, I say bullshit. Men and women who fail to practice safesex and are sexually irresponsible engage in long-termmonogamous relationships just as much, if not more, than theydo short-term non-monogamous (casual) sex.Adult film stars are very promiscuous, and they also havesome of the lowest rates of STDs of any man or woman in6
Oooooh Say it AgainAmerican society (most Adult Film actors and actressesactually get tested for HIV an average of once per month, andthey get tested for other STDs an average of once every 2-3months).Do your research people. There are a lot more myths andunsubstantiated criticisms and assertions against the conceptof casual sex than there are truth, facts, and valid statements.Here are some of the questions and issues I plan toaddress in my third paperback:What are the symptoms of the Madonna / Whore Complex,and how does it affect a man’s attitude and behavior towardwomen?What types of women are most receptive to invitations toindulge in casual sex? What type of women will typically havethe most adverse reactions to invitations to engage in shortterm or non-monogamous sex?Why are some women totally turned off by sexuallyprovocative conversations and erotic dirty talk, while otherwomen will “pretend” as though they are turned off andoffended by sex talk, but in reality, are really turned on byerotically explicit language and sexually provocativeconversations?What is “seduction?” When do you really need to truly‘seduce’ a woman? When can you have sex with a womanwithout needing to ‘seduce’ her?How important is your physical appearance in turningwomen on? How important is your degree of career success orwealth? How important is your sense of humor? What are theprimary male attributes you need to possess in order toeffectively attract and seduce women into having sex with you?7
Alan Roger CurrieWhat is Aural Sex? How can you get a woman sexuallyaroused simply by using certain words, your voice, and youroverall conversational skills?How can a man identify the “true prudes” from the“disingenuous / fake prudes?” Why do women ‘pretend’ to be‘prudish’ when they are really open-minded, free-spirited, anderotically uninhibited? Why do some women ‘pretend’ to beonly interested in long-term monogamous sex when in realitythey have and will indulge in short-term non-monogamous sex?These are just some of the questions I will address in thisbook. Hopefully, after reading through it, you will have some ofthe answers and advice you need to improve your ability toverbally seduce those women who you are most interested inhaving sex with.I accept the fact that many of my beliefs, ideas, andphilosophi
Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex can be described as 60% self-help and social commentary for men regarding their pursuit of short-term and/or non-monogamous (i.e., "casual") sexual companionship, and 40% detailed examples of erotically explicit dialogue that author Alan Roger Currie used in his real-life verbal seduction experiences with women. Readers .
