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WebMD magazine download this issueon your ipad for freefrom the app store!October 2013 / 4.95Food& RecipesFamily &ParentingThe 411 onDay Carepg. 24MEN ’ SH e a lt hThree Ways toCook Crabpg. 34Fitness& E x e rc i s eThe Upside ofTrampolinespg. 38A Guide forSingle DadsTheGoodlifeAs her career soars, actorJulianna Margulies learnsto let go pg. 28pg. 14LivingH e a lt h yH e a lt h yBeautySecrets From aTop Dentistpg. 19Head-to-ToeTips for Mompg. 12By theNumbersHealth CareReformpg. 41o c tober 2013 * webmd.c om

october 2013F e at u r eContents28Pg.“you haveto choosethe life youwant, takeresponsibility,and realizeyou createyour own lifeby makingchoices.“TheGood LifeJulianna Margulies canrelate to the long hoursthat high-profile attorneysput in. After all, the actorplays a lawyer in The GoodWife, which recently startedanother season. Margulies’career continues to soar andshe’s now got a 5-year-oldin tow, but she’s learningto lean on others and relaxa little more. Not that shelets everything go by thewayside: She opens upabout how she maintainsher energy as well as acause near and dear to herheart, finding a cure forLou Gehrig’s disease.Cover Photograph by Alexei Hay/Jedrooti n e v e ry i s s u ePg.5Editor’s NoteThe importance of mentalhealth awareness, plus thenew WebMD iPhone app.Pg.43Take 10We crack the code on mysterybuff Octavia Spencer. Theactor and author talks aboutthe inspiration for her newkids’ book, her health habits,and how she handles fame.october 2013243We b M D . c o mDownload WebMDMagazine for Free!Get your iPadsubscription in theApp Store.

ContentsOctober 2013HEALTHY START6Pg.11Pg.15Pg.21Pg.33Pg.36Pg.39Pg.Hot Topics: Are big cities safer than rural areas? Are longdistance relationships always short-lived? Find out and get morenews you can use. Personal Best: Actor Judy Greer shares hertop beauty, food, and relaxation secrets.LIVING HEALTHYWebMD on the Street: Our experts help a working mom who’sgot her heart set on raising her sons to be active and outdoorsy. Men’s Health: Single dads, are you trying to do it all? Learn howto reach out and get the help you need.HEALTHY BEAUTYYou Asked: Is unwanted hair too much for you to bare? Smooththings over with our expert product picks and tips. Your Smile:Get smart about wisdom teeth. Here’s the scoop on what theyare and when they need to come out. Plus: A dentist to the starsreveals her top tips. Beauty Smarts: Wrinkles, dark circles, andpuffiness, oh, my! See what eye creams can do for you.F AMILY & PARENTINGParenting: Actors and twins Tia Mowry-Hardrict and TameraMowry-Housley may be working moms, but they still have doublethe fun. Baby Talk: Finding day care can be daunting. Take adeep breath with these tips. Pet Health: Every dog has its day,but it should never include these seven dangerous foods. FitKids: Help your child develop a healthy body image with ourexpert’s advice.F OOD & RECIPES3 Ways to Cook Crab. Take a crack at this healthy and flavorfullean protein. From soup to cakes, our easy recipes will satisfy youany night of the week.F ITNESS & E X ERCISEWork It Out: Hit the trail for your next workout. Hiking does themind and body good. Fitness Challenge: You’ll be jumping forjoy with the results of this trampoline workout. Learn how a littlebounce can improve muscle tone and blast calories.w e b m d CHECKUPSpotlight: Guys, low libido got you down? You may have erectile dysfunctionor low testosterone. Find out more. By the Numbers: An up-close look at theAffordable Care Act. Health Check: Do you have sleep trouble? Test yoursmarts with this quiz.We b M D . c o m3october 2013

Editor in chiefvice president, publisherKristy HammamHeidi Andersonassociate publisherEditorial directorDawn CareyColleen ParettyGroup Vice president of sales operationsSenior EditorsJonathan KatzSusan Davis, Sylvia DavisVIce President, CirculationPaul BarKathleen Cusacksales operations analyST Kisha Jacksonwebmd.com senior director, editorialStephanie SnipesSenior director, marketingwebmd.com art directorNoel TriplettAdvertising salesClaudia Fern, cfern@webmd.net, 212-624-3728Patria Rodriguez, prodriguez@webmd.net, 212-417-9542John Schaetzle, jschaetzle@webmd.net, 212-624-3787chief Medical editorMichael W. Smith, MDMedical editorschicagoBrunilda Nazario, MDHansa Bhargava, MDAnna Novinger, anovinger@webmd.net, 312-416-9278Meghan Rice, mrice@webmd.net, 312-416-9276brand reviewwest coastLauren Gracco Sumrall, Bill SimsNicole Ransom, nransom@webmd.net, 310-318-1728contributing writersPacific northwestChristina Boufis, Sonya Collins,Heather Hatfield, Jodi Helmer,Ayren Jackson-Cannady, Katherine Kam,Lauren Paige Kennedy, Shelley Levitt,Matt McMillen, Erin O’Donnell, Gina Shaw,Stephanie WatsonLisa Mackie, WNP Medialisa@wnpmedia.com, 415-601-5871SOUTHEASTCourtney Cofield, WNP Mediacourtney@wnpmedia.com, 770-569-8188SouthwestKailey Latteri, WNP Mediakailey@wnpmedia.com, 214-824-9008New EnglandRob DeSalvo, WNP Mediarob@wnpmedia.com, 617-413-3628Editorial, design, production managementEditor at largeDeputy editorKim CavinessAndrea Gabrickassociate editorRebecca Scherr111 eighth ave., suite 700, new york, n.y. 10011David J. SchlangerSteven L. Zatz, MDchief financial officer Peter AnevskiBookings director Wendy Zipes Hunterwendy@celebrity-concepts.comart directorsphoto editorpresidentMelissa H. Miller, Glenn Piercechief Operating officer & Chief technology officerKatie Ellsworthproduction directorcommercial strategy officerAmy Fabbri, Jerry Parksadvertising traffic managerproduction artistWilliam E. PenceDave Marekco-general counsel & secretary Doug Wamsleyco-general counsel Michael GlickSenior vice president, marketing Matt DumasConnie OttoProduction managersCopy editorChief executive officerJennifer MorganBrenda M. Waughsenior vice president, Consumer Market SalesTracy Roy HankinJames McCanndirector, policy & governance Theresa Saladinovice president, mobile & emerging media Todd Zandervice president, pR Katherine HahnSharon K. Congdonmarketing directorvice president, FinanceRebecca LoveridgeCustomer Service & subscriptionsMedical Professionals To manage your subscription, go to WebMD.com/magazine/subscribe.Readers Download a free subscription to WebMD Magazine on your iPad. Go to the App Store (www.apple.com).Comments? Questions? Go to CustomerCare.WebMD.com or “Contact Us” at the bottom of every page on WebMD.com.WebMD Magazine is distributed to doctors’ offices throughout the U.S., online atWebMD.com, and by download from the App Store. WebMD Magazine is not responsible foradvertising claims. WebMD Magazine (ISSN 1553-9946), Vol. 9, No. 7, is published by WebMD, LLC andmay not be reproduced in whole or in part without written permission of WebMD, LLC. All editorial content isreviewed by our board-certified physicians, is for informational purposes only, and is not intended to be a substitutefor professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. WebMD does not endorse any specific product, service, ortreatment. Always seek the advice of your health care provider with any questions regarding a medical condition and neverdisregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have read in WebMD Magazine. If you thinkyou have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. 2013 WebMD, LLC. All rights reserved.We b M D . c o m4October 2013

Top left: Gregory Miller;David LoSchiavo/Getty Images; Ojo Images/Glow ImagesE d i to r’ sn ot eBy one estimation, one in fourAmericans has a mental illness suchas depression or post-traumatic stress disorder. That’s more people than those living with high cholesterol or who break anarm each year But as common as mentalillness is, there’s still a stigma surrounding it. People don’t like to talk about it forfear of being judged.The first full week of October is MentalHealth Awareness Week, aimed at putting an end to stigma and advocating fortreatment and recovery. While millions ofAmericans struggle with mental healthproblems, those who need help are toooften afraid to seek it or see it as a weakness—not the sign of strength that it is.I recently joined a conference at theWhite House aimed at starting a nationalconversation about mental health. Speakers included actor Glenn Close, whoco-founded a non-profit organization toconfront the stigma and discriminationassociated with mental health disorders.You can read more about public efforts tobring mental illness out of the shadows inthis issue (see page 39).What can WebMD do to better help?I’d love to hear your ideas to keep theconversation going.Are You Covered?In January most Americans will be requiredto have health insurance. And starting thismonth, you’ll be able to shop for coveragethrough your state’s health insurancemarketplace. Are you still unclear about howthis all works? WebMD can help. Tune in toour “Affordable Care Act in 2 Minutes” videoto learn about the changes that have alreadytaken effect and what’s to come in January.Go to webmd.com/health-insurance today.Download WebMDMagazine for Free!Get your free iPadsubscriptionin the App Store.Tell-Tail TipsWe’ve gone to the dogs! Our recent Twitterpost asking “Is it time to train your dog?”was the most-clicked magazine post lastmonth. Turns out, lots of followers are looking for expert pet tips. And we’ve got evenmore. In this issue, we help owners keeptheir begging pets safe with the scoop onthe seven most dangerous foods for dogs(page 25).We Want to Hear From You!Like WebMD!facebook.com/webmdTweet us!twitter.com/webmdPin with us!pinterest.com/webmd/webmd-magazineKristy HammamEditor in Chiefkristy@webmd.comNew and ImprovedWe’re making a goodthing even better—theWebMD iPhone app justgot an upgrade. Getall the health info youneed and even morepersonalized healthy livingtips, and a customizeddaily mini-magazine of funfacts, articles, quizzes,and slideshows. Downloadthe app for free in theiTunes Store today!Email the editors!webmdmagazineeditors@webmd.netOctober 20135We b M D . c o mCold and fluseason is aroundthe corner. Tellus your tips forkeeping healthythis season attwitter.com/webmd.

h e a lt h ys ta r tHot T op i c s!Clockwise from top left: Ryan McVay/Getty Images; Rubberball/Alan Bailey/Getty Images; Zone Creative/Getty Images; AlphaBaby/Veer; Luis Alvarez/Getty Images; Fred Froese/Getty Images; Floortje/Getty Imagesfacts and news you can useDimming the lightscould spur creativity. Tworecent studies on lightingand creativity in theworkplace found thatdarkness (or dimillumination) helps peoplefeel more free of constraintsand triggers a “risky,explorative processing style.”Source: Journal of Environmental PsychologyGirls whoplay sportsare eighttimes morelikely thanboys to havean ACLinjury, a tearof the kneeligament.of Americansconsider themselvesvegetarian; womenand unmarried adultsare the most likely tobe vegetarians.Source: Safe Kids WorldwideSource: Gallup5%43Percentageof uninsuredAmericans who saythey are unawarethe Affordable CareAct will requirethem to get coverageor pay a fine.The shape, size,and color ofcutlery mayinfluencetaste andperceptionof food.For example,people in onestudy saidyogurt wasmore dense andexpensive whenthey tasted itusing a lightplastic spoon.Number of Americanswho care for anadult or child withsignificant healthissues, up from3 in 10 in 2010.Source: FlavourSource: Pew Research CenterOne serving (about 19 pieces)of candy corn contains140 calories.Source: National Confectioners AssociationSource: Gallup4 in 1047% of U.S.pet ownerssay owning apet improvestheir sociallives morethan joiningsocialnetworkingsites.Decreaseof HPVinfectionsin girls andwomen ages 14to 19 since thevaccine wasintroduced inthe U.S. in 2006.Source: CDCSource: MintelOctober 201356%6We b M D . c o m

h e a lt h yS ta r tHeadGameBig FishYou’ve probably heard that fish oil is good for your heart.New research suggests this could be because it helps you remaincalm under fire. Researchers measured the heart rates and nervoussystem responses of 64 people after they solved several mathproblems. Half the group then took 9,000 milligrams of fish oil aday for eight weeks, while the others consumed the same amount ofolive oil. When they took the math test again, those who’d taken fishoil had significantly lower heart rates and nervous system responsesafter the test, compared with the others.Source: American Journal of Physiology40Source: RadiologyHelping HandDoing good for others may also begood for you. In a study of 1,654people over age 50, those who hadvolunteered 200 hours or morein the last year—that’s about fourhours a week—lowered their risk ofdeveloping high blood pressure by40% over the next four years.Source: Psychology and AgingWe b M D . c o m7October 2013Percentage of“designateddrivers” whodrink while onduty. Just onedrink can causeimpairment ofdriving-relatedabilities, such ascoordinationand focus.Source: Journal of Studies onAlcohol and DrugsClockwise from top: omer sukru goksu/Getty Images; Yunus Arakon/Getty Images; Fancy Photography/Veer; Exactostock/Superstock/Glow ImagesSoccer playersmight want to limitthe number oftimes they heada ball in practiceand save it for thegame. Amateurplayers whoheaded the ballmore than 1,000times in the pastyear had poorerneurocognitiveperformance,including memory,than those whoheaded theball less often, astudy found.

Clockwise from top left: David Bases/Getty Images; Justin Horrocks/Getty Images; photovideostock/Getty Images; Lachlan Currie/Getty ImagesCitySlickerDog ShowThey may be noisy andcrowded, but big citiesare safer to live in thanrural areas, a studyshows. While murderand suicide rates arehigher in cities, in ruralareas the risk of deathby accidental injury is 15times greater than therisk of death by murder.Those accidentaldeaths, mostly fromcar crashes, guns, andpoisonings, are 20%more common in thecountry than in the city.Number of children treatedin emergency rooms annuallyfor TV-related injuries,most due to falling TVs.Source: Annals of Emergency MedicineSource: PediatricsThink of your dog as your baby? The feeling is probablymutual. Researchers have found that dogs develop thesame kind of attachment to their owners that children havefor their caregivers. Like children in the presence of theirparents, dogs feel more comfortable exploring and are moreinterested in working for a reward when their owners arearound. While kids grow out of this attachment, dogs don’t:They’ll always be your babies.Source: PLOS One17,313.comHot HitsWhat’s trending onWebMD.com right now*Tough Love?Think long-distance relationships rarely workout? Think again. In a study, 63 couples kept a diaryfor one week of all their interactions, includingcalls, video chats, texts, instant messaging, emails,and face-to-face encounters. Those in long-distancerelationships reported sharing personal thoughtsand feelings with their partners more often thanthose in geographically close relationships. Thelong-distance daters felt their partners were moreopen, too, which increased their feelings of intimacy.Maybe absence really does make the heart grow fonder.Source: Journal of CommunicationOctober 20138We b M D . c o mHow much watershould I drink?Spider bite symptomsHow to lose belly fatBirth order andpersonalityMilk thistle’s benefitsWhat do panic attacksfeel like?Chia for weight lossFood poisoning factsWhat is sleep apnea?Quality sleep, qualityrelationship*as of July 1, 2013

!JumpstartThe essential iPhoneapp for people living withchronic pain. Personal journal to easilylog pain levels, triggers, andmore. Daily tips approved byWebMD doctors to help youmeet your goals. Articles, slideshows, andvideos related to yourcondition. Custom reports for betterdiscussions with your doctor.Sister ActFor many parents, refereeing siblingsquabbles is all in a day’s work, butthat doesn’t mean sibling aggressionis harmless. New research showssibling bullying can be just asdamaging as bullying by peers. In astudy of 3,599 children, those who’dbeen victims of sibling aggressionin the past year reported poorermental health than those whogot along with their brothers andsisters. If parents see their childrenare unable to resolve a conflict, theycan take the opportunity to teachrelationship skills like negotiation,compromise, and understandinganother’s perspective.Source: PediatricsA Better Day Starts Here.Percentageof Americansage 18 andover whosmokecigarettes,downslightly frompreviousyearsSource: CDC19Daily dose. That’s whatyou can get right nowon your iPhone withour redesigned andreimagined WebMD app,now ready for download(or updating) from theiTunes store.I’ve never seen ahealth app quite likethis, and I’m hooked.It’s like having yourown personal health“magazine.” Here’s howit works: First, choosethe lifestyle topicsthat interest you themost—fitness & exercise,healthy eating, parenting& family, beauty, sex &relationships, or men’sstyle (pick ‘em all if youwant). Then chooseyour goals—balancelife, lose weight, savemoney, reduce stress,stay healthy, sleepbetter—and sign intoyour WebMD account tosave your selections, andvoilà, the app serves upall kinds of multimediainfo and tools in eachcategory, with a newbatch every day.Just swipe your waythrough tips, fun facts,news items, articles,and links to slideshowsand newsletter signups.Most everything is short,digestible, motivational,and easy to remember,just the right amount ofinformation you want ona phone. And you cansave everything for easyaccess right in the app,or text, tweet, or email toyourself or anyone else.Check it out every dayfor a week or two, thenlet me know if you love itas much as I do.Colleen ParettyEditorial Directorcolleen@webmd.comTop: Jamie Grill/Getty Images; Bottom: Plain Picture/Glow ImagesNEWh e a lt h yS ta r t

h e a lt h yS ta r tPersonal BestJudy GreerThe actor shares her healthyliving habitsGreer starsin the remakeof Carrie, whichopens thismonth.Pantry Picks“I always have wineor Champagne, Dijonmustard, and honey onhand. The last two makegreat salad dressing withlemon juice and olive oil.”“I make weights out ofbottles of red wineor water.”De-stress Strategies“I do Bikram yoga, andit’s been saving mylife lately. I try to doit three days a week.With Bikram, I knowwhat I’m going to getin the way of a class,no matter what townI’m in or what country.It helps me sleepat night.”Top 3 Makeup Musts“It’s got to be mascara,eyebrow pencil,and Fresh Sugar LipTreatment SPF 15 inSugar Rosé and SugarBerry. Uh-oh—this isfour—my blush.”Dinner Time“At home I make‘garbage salad’ with alot of leftovers mixedwith kale, spinach,romaine, and rice.Leftovers depend onwhat I made for the kidspreviously, but usuallya little meat. And I eatfeta cheese everyday of my life.”With more than 80 film and television roles to her credit,Judy Greer, 38, isn’t fazed playing Miss Desjardin in theremake of the horror movie classic Carrie, opening thismonth, then taking on the role of female chimp Cornelia inthe action film Dawn of the Planet of the Apes, set for releasenext July. Her other recent big-screen titles include Playingfor Keeps; Jeff, Who Lives at Home; and The Descendants.Look for Greer’s first book, I Don’t Know What You KnowMe From: Confessions of a Co-Star, a collection of humorousessays, in 2014. She voices Cheryl in FX’s animated sitcomseries Archer and continues as assistant and mistress KittySanchez in Arrested Development on Netflix. Greer alsohosts her own Yahoo! webisode series, Reluctantly Healthy.Born in Detroit, this former classical Russian ballet student is now stepmom to two teenagers.—Stephanie StephensWe b M D . c o m10October 2013Work It Out“I used to run and amstill trying to do a littlebit. I have an easier timeexercising on locationwhen I don’t have towork all day. I alwaysbring spinning shoes andtry to spin at new places.I’m a huge fan of workoutDVDs. I make weights outof bottles of red wineor water.”Clockwise from center: Jenny Podushko/Getty Images; Daniel Loiselle/Getty Images; Ocean Photography/Veer; Nicholas Eveleigh/Getty Images; hoch2wo/VeerAdvice Column“Drink a ton of water, usemoisturizer and sunscreen,and make yourself sweatonce a day—the last one ismy husband’s advice. Also,wash your face every nightbefore bed.”

livingh e a lt h yChillOut12 On the StreetLeave yourself opento new possibilitiesExpert tips for anoutdoorsy mom14 Men’s HealthCalling allsingle dadsEXPERT TIP“To meet new people, you have to try newactivities. If you like hiking, join a hiking group.If you’re religious, try a new church.”—NicoleZangara, LCSWPhotograph by Brigitte Sporrer/Getty ImagesOctober 201311We b M D . c o m

EARTHMOTHERWe pound thepavement to getexpert answersto your pressinghealth questionsLIVINGH E A LT H YGAME CHANGER“Remember that ‘mental aerobics’are just as important as physicalaerobics for your parents.Encourage social activities thatstimulate both their minds and theirbodies, such as inviting them to aweekly family game night.”Read moreexpert advicein our freeiPad app!Lisa Hollis-Sawyer, PhDGerontology Program coordinator,Northeastern Illinois UniversityPhotograph by Forrest MacCormackFLY AWAY“Look for EPA-registeredrepellents such as DEETand Picaridin. The EPAregistration number [inthe ingredients sectionof the product label]tells you the agencyhas determined therepellent poses minimalrisk and is effective forat least two hours ifapplied according tothe directions. You canuse DEET and Picaridinon children as young as2 months.”CLEAR THE AIR“During the winter, the hot airblowing out of the furnace is verydry—and that can cause drynessand cracking of the lining of thenose. You can combat this with ahumidifier or vaporizer in your kids’bedrooms. But you’re right—youhave to keep the devices clean.Once a week, take each humidifierapart and wipe down every surfacewith diluted bleach. If you don’t,mold will build up, which cancause allergies and otherhealth problems.”Joseph Conlontechnical adviser, American MosquitoControl AssociationRoy Benaroch, MDpediatrician and assistant clinicalprofessor of pediatrics, Emory UniversityLIFE’S LESSONS“You can teach children empathy—the ability to see the world throughanother’s eyes—through literature.For example, while reading TheVelveteen Rabbit, you could askwhat the little boy felt when helost his rabbit and how the rabbitfelt when the boy left him behind.To develop grit, put emphasis onperseverance. Encourage yourson as he sounds out a new word,expressing pride in his efforts.”Leslie Becker-Phelps, PhDpsychologist and author, WebMD’sThe Art of Relationships blogWEBMD ON THE STREETCourtney PollackDirector of Product Management, 34Silver Spring, Md.Want to be the nextWebMD on the Streetstar? Tweet us yourhealth issues at@WebMD. We might@WebMDcome to your city!Courtney Pollack and her husband,Saul, have always had an affinityfor the great outdoors. And, livingin the backyard of the nation’scapital, they want their sons, Sam,3, and Benji, 7 months, to hike, fish,and grow to lead active lifestylestoo. “How can we do this with allthe technological distractions kidsface?” she asks. On the flip side,her tech-savvy parents are enteringtheir golden years, and she wantsto help them keep moving as well.But being outside has its drawbacks.“The area has way too manymosquitoes! How can we safely andeffectively protect our family fromthese pests?” Her health concernsdon’t fly out the window as warmerweather wanes. Pollack wants toknow, “Do humidifiers in toddlers’and infants’ rooms during thewinter months help prevent illness?They are a maintenance headache!”She also worries about the boys’emotional health: “Empathy andgrit are two important qualities thatwe’d like to instill in our children,”she says. “How can we successfullydo that?” And while this workingmom is trying to move mountains,she’s also trying to find muchneeded “me time.” She asks, “Whatare the best workouts to positivelyimpact my health and energy levels?—Rebecca ScherrTHE OPINIONS EXPRESSED IN THIS SECTIONARE OF THE EXPERTS AND ARE NOT THEOPINIONS OF WEBMD. WEBMD DOES NOTENDORSE ANY SPECIFIC PRODUCT, SERVICE,OR TREATMENT.

Are you a single dad?Connect with othersat facebook.com/webmd.livingh e a lt h yMEN’S HEALTHSingle FileDads, are you juggling work and the kids by yourself?By Matt McMillenPaul Bradbury/Getty ImagesNearly 2 millionfathers in the UnitedStates are raising their kidsalone. Most have beenmarried, but close to a thirdnever tied the knot. A feware widowers. No matterhow men find themselves insingle-parent mode, expertssay it’s not a good idea to letpride get in the way of beingthe best parent possible.“Men often have an ‘I cando it all myself ’ attitude,”says psychologist BarryGinsberg, PhD, author of50 Wonderful Ways to Be aSingle-Parent Family. Thatthinking can make thingsdifficult, especially whenyou have to balance kids andcareer. Ginsberg’s advice:Learn to ask for help.“It’s very important todevelop a resource system,”he says. “If your child getssick while you’re at work, it isnice to know there’s someonewho can pick him or her up.”Ginsberg tells single dadshe counsels to connect withneighbors, friends, andother parents—people theycan rely on when they needa hand. But he acknowledges this is not always easyfor guys.from webmd.comQ &A“How will I knowthe time’s right tointroduce my newgirlfriend to mykids?”Daniel Ostrov, 44advertising executive,Portland, Ore.EXPERTANSWERAnother is your job. Talkto your boss about a moreflexible schedule. For example, ask if you can work fromhome on certain days anddiscuss ways to limit workrelated travel. At the veryleast, your employer shouldbe aware of your situation.That way, if a problem arises,you don’t have to answer alot of questions before youleave to attend to your child.“It’s a shame issue.They’re embarrassed ifthey have to say, ‘I coulduse some help.’ They feelthey’re not good enough asmen, or they’ll lose respectif they can’t handle it ontheir own.”One place to start is yourchild’s school. “It’s all aboutnetworking with other parents,” says Ginsberg. “Get toknow people.”EXPERT TIP“If you’ve just divorced, keep things as simple and stable as possible.Joint custody should follow a regular routine, and try to keep your kids’rooms set up the way they like them.”—Ronald Levant, EdDOctober 201314We b M D . c o m“Two things shouldguide you: Thewelfare of yourchildren and thestability of yournew relationship.Children may takea while to adjustto a situation.Introducing anotherwoman too sooncould upset them. Inthe case of divorce,for example, thekids might blamethe new girlfriendfor the breakupof your marriage,even if she had noinvolvement. Youshould also askyourself, ‘Doesthis relationshiphave legs?’ If youintroduce her to thekids and then breakup, it may echothe trauma.”Ronald Levant, EdDprofessor of psychology,The University of AkronReviewed by Michael W. Smith, MDWebMD Chief Medical Editor

16 You AskedExpert hairremoval tips andproduct picks18 Your SmileGet smart aboutwisdom teeth, plusa dentist’s secrets20 Beauty SmartsSee which eyecreams are for youGleamTeamThere are plenty of reasonsto smile this seasonEXPERT TIP“Have fluoride at home to remineralize theteeth, which will make them stronger and moreresistant to breakdown.”—Grace Sun, DDSPhotograph by Stewart Shining/Trunk ArchiveOctober 201315We b M D . c o m

Ready to retire the razor? Read LaserHair Removal, one of the top articlesat the Healthy Beauty Center.h e a lt h ybeauty.comYou AskedBare in MindPrepare for takeoff with expert hair-removaltips and product picksBy Ayren Jackson-Cannadyfrom webmd.comQ &A“Age spots on thebacks of handsrun in my family.Is there any way Ican avoid gettingthem too?”Blade RunnerSmooth MoveSchick Intuition Pure Nourishment Razor( 9.99) “I like razors with multiple blades andconditioning strips, like this one infused withcoconut milk and almond oil. For the closestshave, shave against the growth. If you havesensitive skin, shave in the direction of thehair growth.”Remington Smooth & Silky Epilator ( 59.99)“For the best epilation [an epilator is a handheld electrical device that grasps and pullsout unwanted hairs], it is essential to exfoliate.Then epilate against the grain, and if you’resensitive to pain, take an over-the-counterpain reliever a half hour before.”Foam RunStubble TroubleSatin Care Dry Skin Shave Gel ( 3.49) “Don’tshave on dry skin as you will get cuts, nicks,and micro-abrasions that can lead to bumps.To prevent bumps, use a hydrating shavinggel like this—not soap. Wait a few minutesin the shower after applying the gel and letit penetrate.”Veet Fast Acting Gel Cream Hair Remover( 9) “Depilatories [chemical-based creamsthat break down keratin for easy hair removal]have come a long way. They have muchnicer scents, and they leave your skin feelingsmooth and soft. Do a patch test to makecertain you are not allergic.”Debra Jaliman, MDdermatologist and author of Skin Rules: TradeSecrets From a Top New York Dermatologistthe opinions expressed in this section are ofthe experts and are not the opinions of WebMD.WebMD does not endorse any specific product,service, or treatment.We b M D . c o m16October 2013Jacinta Adams36, teacher, Mebane, N.C.EXPERTANSWER“You must use abroad-spectrumsunscreen thatprotects you againstUVA and UVBrays. My favoritesunscreens arethose containingzinc oxide ortitanium dioxide(at least 4% zincoxide or titaniumdioxide along withUVB sunscreeningredients),such as BlueLizard AustralianSunscreen DailyMoisturizer SPF30 ( 11.99), whichhas 8% zinc oxide.You can also tryNeutrogena RapidTone Repair( 19.99), made witha combo of retinol,vitamin C, andhyaluronic acid.”Lawrence Samuels, MDchief of dermatology,St. Luke’s Hospital,St. Louis

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