Tough Conversations: Sexual Assault, Dating/Domestic .

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DEBRIEFING:SEXUAL ASSAULT, DATING/DOMESTICVIOLENCE, STALKINGKRYSTAL DIELALEXIS SOVAVICTIM ADVOCATERESIDENT ASSISTANT

THINGS TO NOTE: Sexual assault, dating/domestic violence, stalking, and harassment can impact people of all GendersSexual OrientationsAgesRacesAbilityReligions We all have a role in changing our culture We will be using the term victim/survivor Take care of yourself This topic can be difficult Feel free to take a break, use the restroom, etc.

RESOURCES Grand Valley State University Police Department Non-emergency 616-331-3255 Title IX Coordinator, Theresa Rowland 4035 Zumberge Hall 616-331-9530 Victim Advocate, Krystal Diel 1201 Kirkhof 616-331-2748 University Counseling Center 204 Student Services 616-331-3266 YWCA of Grand Rapids 616-776-7273 Resilience: Advocates for Ending Violence 800-848-5991

TOPICS TO BE COVERED Group DiscussionPhases of Debriefing- Fact Phase- Thought Phase- Reaction Phase- Symptom Phase Support/Resources

BY A SHOW OF HANDS Who here has received a disclosure of sexual assault, dating/domesticviolence, stalking In your role as an RA From a friend/roommate In the classroom In your community

WITHOUT SHARING ANY IDENTIFYING DETAILS What was your experience hearing the disclosure How did you feel? Uncomfortable, angry, heartbroken, conflicted? What do you think you did well in that situation? What skills do you want to continue to work on?

FACT PHASE Who are you? What was your job during the incident? General facts about the incident

THOUGHT PHASE What were your first thoughts about the incident once you got off the“autopilot” mode

REACTION PHASE What was the worst part of the event for you personally

SYMPTOM PHASE What are the signs and symptoms of distress you may be experiencing? During the event During the next 3-5 days When you are debriefing

FOLLOW UPS Checking in with yourself This can be tough for you too Do you need to talk to a counselor What self care strategies do you have in place? Reading a book, going on a walk, taking a nap, coffee with a friend, Netflix, turning yourphone off, etc. You are always welcome to debrief with me

RESOURCES Grand Valley State University Police Department Non-emergency 616-331-3255 Title IX Coordinator, Theresa Rowland 4035 Zumberge Hall 616-331-9530 Victim Advocate, Krystal Diel 1201 Kirkhof 616-331-2748 University Counseling Center 204 Student Services 616-331-3266 YWCA of Grand Rapids 616-776-7273 Resilience: Advocates for Ending Violence 800-848-5991

THINGS TO NOTE: Sexual assault, dating/domestic violence, stalking, and harassment can impact people of all Genders Sexual Orientations Ages Races Ability Religions We all have a role in changing our culture We will be using the term victim/survivor Take care of yourself This topic can be diff