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You’re home and your brother is bored and decides he wants togo to his friend Tyler’s house. He leaves your house and asksyou not to tell your parents. Is this a safe or unsafe secret?Your dad is giving your mom a surprise birthday party withstreamers, balloons and lots of presents, but he tells you notto tell anyone about it. Is this a safe or unsafe secret?Your aunt is having a baby and she has told you that thebaby is going to be a boy, but she tells you not to tellanyone about it. Is this a safe or unsafe secret?You are using the bathroom and somebody walks inon you, but tells you not to tell your Grown-Up Buddy.Is this a safe or unsafe secret?SAFE VS. UNSAFE SECRETS

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SAFETY WORDSIJR MPSUXGLGTRASYAECEELCJM R M UYAQ MPM RCYH QTIFEO KHO V O USRJTUA W P W BDSRSOEM RKTNFG O RZITINTAUYTUFBJPV OIXATRSSLPAA MPDCN GLYQTAIBCA O CLTGH MLTEFNUTNVZPRIVACYDEG DSUSLIQFCLCXATUDRJTXBUBIKVG DYTYUXZVDXJLU MJUEC W D O KUYPSF W CFLFBBL W EMFU W FGTDPATVOPFIND THE SAFETY WORDSWords can go horizontally, vertically and diagonallyin all eight directions. Words may overlap.FactsGrown-Up ingTrusted AdultLP

DIRECTIONS: Cut out the Secret Gauge and arrowon the dotted lines Color the left quarter of the circle greenand the right quarter of the circle red Cut out the arrow on the dotted lines Poke a small hole in the middle of thegauge and at the bottom of the arrow. Attach the arrow with the brad,inserting it through the hole in thearrow and the hole in the gauge. Use the black marker to write “Safe”at the bottom of the green quarter,“Unsafe” at the bottom of the redquarter, and “Secret Gauge” belowthe red and green quarters Now you are all ready to begin usingyour Secret Gauge to help decide if asecret is SAFE or UNSAFE!MATERIALS: Red and Green Crayons or markers Scissors Black Marker Metal Brad (contained in this pack)MAKE YOUR SECRET GAUGE

WARNING SIGNS OF GROOMINGRead the following scenarios. Circle the warning sign if you think that that the scenario could be a signof grooming. Cross out the warning sign if you do not think the scenario is a warning sign of grooming.1. When you are in the grocery store with your mom, an olderman asks you if you could reach a high shelf and hand hima can of tomatoes. He thanks you and continues shopping.2. Your neighbor asks you to move some tree limbs forhim after a big storm. He invites you in, gives you somemoney, but tells you not to tell anyone. He tells you thathe always has yard work to do and will pay you, butdoesn’t want you telling your mom or dad.3. Your friend’s mom is teaching an exercise class in the park.She has invited lots of kids your age to join. One day youhurt your leg and she offers to take you home. You sit in theback seat of the car and she drops you off at your house.4. Your aunt always wants to babysit at your house whenyour mom goes to work. She sits very close to youwhen you are watching tv and likes to braid your hair.You feel uncomfortable.Bone

EmbarrassingThingsSilly MistakesYou’ve MadeSocial SecurityNumberCredit CardNumberTest AnswersBullyingUnsafe TouchesBirthdayPasswordsHopesSpiritual BeliefsDreamsWeather ReportUnsafe SecretsPhone NumberComplimentsGratitudeWhom You LikeScary ThoughtsYour GradesHome AddressDirectionsSafe Secrets (untilthe right time)GradesEmailAddressTime of DayJournalParents’ SalaryTemperatureDiaryThreatsInjuries/IllnessVery Personal (InYour Head and InYour Heart)WHAT KIND OF INFORMATION IS IT?CUT OUT AND TAPE TOGETHER WITH FOLLOWING PAGEPRIVACY PUZZLESomewhatPrivateFactual(Numbers,Addresses, etc.)

NeverMaybeCUT OUT AND TAPE TOGETHER WITH PREVIOUS PAGESHOULD YOU SHARE IT?AlwaysBone

SAFETY CROSSWORD12345Use what you have learned about safety to complete the crossword puzzle!ACROSS4. Complaint that is annoying and not unsafe5. Meant to be told and will bring a smileDOWN1. Process used to build trust for the purpose of doing harm2. Deals with the safety of you or others3. Told not to tell and is scary, uncomfortable, ickyBone

WHAT THIS MEANS TO METhink about how reporting helps keeps you safe. Tell about a time you needed to report something –even if you didn’t – to help keep you or a friend safe.SAFETY CHECK UPSee what you learned about your personal safety!1. If an adult asks me to share my family’s password with them, I should because I know that I need toalways follow the directions of adults. True or False.2. What is the difference between tattling and reporting?3. There is personal information that should never be shared outside of your family, but anshould always be shared.4. I should always tell a trusted adult if an adult gives me gifts, acts too friendly toward me, and tellsme not to tell anyone. True or False.5. When a safe secret is told everyone will.Bone

WARNING SIGNS OF GROOMING Read the following scenarios. Circle the warning sign if you think that that the scenario could be a sign of grooming. Cross out the warning sign if you do not think the scenario is a warning sign of grooming. 1. When you are in the grocery store with your mom, an older man asks you if you could reach a high shelf and .