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THE SOULMATE SECRETSilva’s Surefire Guide To FindingLove.And Keeping ItBy Laura Silva Quesada
Some years ago, I invited a long-time friend whohad gone through a difficult divorce out to dinner.I wanted to treat her to a very nice restaurant in hopes oflifting her spirits. I pick her up right after work, whichmeant I was still all dressed up in my work clothes. Tomy surprise, when I arrived at her home, she waswearing a tied-dyed T-shirt, leggings and a pair of oldtennis shoes.According to an old Sufi tale, a man by the nameof Nasruddin and his friend were sitting in a cafedrinking tea and talking about life and love. Atone point during their conversation, the friendasks, "How come you never got married,Nasruddin?" "Well," said Nasruddin," to tell youthe truth, I spent my youth looking for the perfectwoman. In Cairo I met a beautiful and intelligentwoman, with eyes like dark olives, but she wasunkind.Then in Baghdad, I met a woman who was awonderful and generous soul, but we had nointerests in common. One woman after anotherwould seem just right, but there would always besomething missing. Then, one day, I met her. Shewas beautiful, intelligent, generous and kind. Wehad everything in common. In fact she wasperfect.Her hair was a bit unruly and needed combing. It wasobvious that she had been going through a bit ofdepression. I figured it was not my place to comment onher attire and that maybe she simply wanted to feelcomfortable. We got into my car and drove towards therestaurant. When we arrived,the after-work crowd had"Well," said Nasruddin's friend, "what“He is greatest whose strength happened? Why didn't you marrypoured into the restaurant andcarries up the most hearts bywe were asked to wait forher?"our table at the bar. The barthe attraction of his own.”was filled with business peopleNasruddin sipped his tea reflectively.who wanted to enjoy happy"Well," he replied, "it's a sad thing,Henry Ward Beecherhour. Many of them were menseems she was looking for the perfectand some of them wereman."acquaintances of mine. Severalof these professional men, handsomely dressed in theirMy response to her in the form of the above storyfine business suits, came up to me with lively greetingsmust have sunk in because in the weeks thatsuch as, “Hi, I haven’t seen you in a while. Let’s getfollow my friend went on a quest to reduce atogether and have dinner one of these evenings.”good amount of weight, resolve many of herWith every greeting, my friend looked more and moredepressed. Finally, she blurts out, “Every one of thesemen has gone up to only you. None of them haveapproached me or have even looked my way.” I lookedat her and asked her, in a very serious way, “Are thesethe kind of men you are hoping to meet? She thenreplied, “Yes, it would be very nice to meet and have aserious relationship with a man who is a professional,has a great job, dresses great and is handsome? At thatpoint I told her the following story:emotional issues, work on a financial strategy thatwould help her get out of debt, started an exerciseprogram and put more attention to herappearance both internally and externally. Withina year, she met a very nice accountant and theywere married a year after that. That was almostfifteen years ago and they are still happilymarried.w w w.s i l v a l i f e s y s t e m.c o m
Likes attract. A negative, depressed, pessimistic,untidy, emotionally challenged person will more thanlikely attract a mirror reflection of him/her self. Toooften, people believe they can hide their “defects”forever from a Mr. or Ms. perfect who is going torelieve them of their miseries, instead of working onevery aspect of themselves to the point that they arehappy with who and how they are fully andcompletely.We often want our idea of the perfect partner to enterour lives and stay forever, yet we are not willing to dowhat it takes to be the “perfect” partner for someoneelse. We can prevent ourselves from painfulexperiences as well as the loss of precious time andenergy if we begin by first working on our selves.Take some time to evaluate what you believe are thenegative aspects of yourself and your life. Areas aboutyourself and your life where you lack love, respectandadmiration? Take them one at a time, write themdown and then write down a more positive outcomefor each area and use that as a goal to manifest.The followingare areasyou maywant toevaluate:“Distance makes the heart growfonder, and familiarity breedscontempt. According to this my soulmate should be in Thailand”Health – Do what you can to improve every aspect ofyour health. Improve your nutrition; begin an exerciseprogram, and stop smoking and excessive drinking.Consult your health caretaker as soon as you feel theneed. Without your health you have little means toenjoy all the goodness life has to offer, and thatincludes your perfect partner.Weight – Find a good nutritional plan and reach yourideal weight for maximum health. There are manyefficient methods for reducing. Work with your healthcaretaker and find the right one for you.Family issues – Approach family members you mayhave unresolved issues with and search for the bestway to resolve those issues. Work on this until youfind genuine comfort in your heart and soul.Career – Improve your talents and skills so as toimprove the quality of your work, your value in thework place, your chances of getting promotions andpay increases and secure your career.Finances – Tighten the belt if necessary and work on aplan to be debt free and financially comfortable.Emotional issues – Look for the root of your emotionalwoes, and seek help if necessary in order tounderstand and overcome them. You do not need todo this alone. Get some support or find a goodtherapist if necessary.Attitudes – Having a positive attitude over a negativeattitude will result in more positive outcomes andrelationships. Be a realistic optimist! With nearly sixbillion people on this planet, there has got to be manypeople that would qualify as perfect partners. Youonly need to attract one of them.Beliefs – Beliefs are statements you make to yourselfabout everything in your living experience. Do yourbeliefs bring more of what you desire into your life ordo they keep them out of reach. The belief “I’munlovable” or “I’ll never find my perfect mate” willnot help you achieve that outcome. Your thoughts(Beliefs are expressed in your thoughts) precedephysical manifestation. Modify your beliefs by simplychanging them to something more positive, andrepeat your new belief over and over until you cometo own it.Jason Zebehazywww.silvalifesystem.com
Habits – There are good habits and there are badAt night, before going to sleep, enter a deepmeditative state and initiate your programming bybroadcasting the following thought (Or somethingsimilar) in a universal manner:Self-esteem – You are a sum total of all your past“I am going to begin programming to attractmy perfect partner. I am hoping to meethim/her within”habits. Work on eliminating your bad habits ormodifying them a little at a time so that they nolonger have a negative effect on you and your futureplans with your partner.experiences. Some experiences lifted your selfesteem and others dampened it. Address and dealwith old issues; develop your talents, practicestanding up for whoyou are and what you believe in, and set clearboundaries for yourself and those you deal with.General appearance – There may be someaspects of your general appearance that can improvewith a little change here and there. Seek someprofessional advice if you believe it will help.Makeovers can be a lot of fun.The idea is to put some conscious effort in becomingthe best you that you can be. A “you” that you cometo love, admire and respect. A “you” that instead ofbeing a “broken present”, is a wonderful, attractive,healthy and desirable gift to give to your perfectpartner, the love of your life. When you transformyourself into the “you” that you love, admire andrespect, you lose the “part” of you that is needy andoften has a repulsive effect on those you haverelationships with. That needy part of you is insteadtransformed into a genuine desire for sharing yourlife with your perfect partner. A desire to live in arelationship with someone as wonderful as you,where the outcome of the two of you comingtogether is two people who aof your union.Once you feel you have reached a good place, aplace that can only get better through time (Sinceyou have come to learn how to think, believe, andbehave in ways resulting in enough evidence toknow you are on theright path), then it is time to begin your mentalprogramming and broadcasting.(State anywhere from 1 – 6 months. Give your partnerenough time to find you. They may be half wayaround the world).“I am healthy in spirit, mind, body and emotionsand I am ready and eager to meet him/her. Ipromise to be fully committed to ourrelationship and be a perfect partner as well”.(For those who believe in God, HigherIntelligence, or a Higher Power then add thefollowing)“I am requesting your assistance in finding myperfect partner for you know exactly whohe/she is. Thank you for your help”.Then, simply go to sleep from there. The followingnight, again enter a deep meditation and mentally sayto yourself the following:“I will awaken when my perfect partner ismost receptive for me to make contact withhim/her”.Then, simply go to sleep from there.Sometime duringthe night or in the morning, you willawaken. When you do, take it for grantedthat it is time to make contact with yourperfect partner. Again enter a deepmeditative state and mentally say:“I am going to count from 10 – 1. By the timeI reach the count of one, I will have attunedmyself to my perfect partner”.www.silvalifesystem.com
As you count on a descending scale toward 1. Imaginezoning in on your perfect partner. Once you reach thecount of 1, take a deep breath and introduce yourself tohim/her. Tell your partner everything about you, yourfamily, interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes, etc. Tellhim/her how great your life is and how much you arelooking forward to meeting him/her. Talk of dailyhappenings as if you were face to face with your perfectpartner. Make sure you also let your perfect partnerknow where you like to hang out, work, shop, oreat. This will help attract him/her to one ofthose places sothat you can meet. You mayalso want to select a special event for yourinitial meeting. Do this programmingevery third night.Good Luck!(This type of programming can be modified to attract theperfect business partner, employee, client, nanny, etc)Allow yourself to remain open to possibilities andlet us know when you meet your perfect partner.NOTE: With this application it is not important tomake a list of the qualities and characteristics youdesire in your perfect partner. Your own higherintelligence or self “knows” what perfect means. Inaddition, for those who believe in God, or a Higher Power,then the belief is that God knows all including who yourperfect partner is.www.silvalifesystem.com
THE SOULMATE SECRET Silva’s Surefire Guide To Finding Love.And Keeping It By Laura Silva Quesada. www.silvalifesystem.com S ome years ago, I invited a long-time friend who had gone through a difficult divorce out to dinner. I wanted to treat her to a
